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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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I wanna date my apartment manager ..

unixguy

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I wanna date my apartment manager ..
here is the deal .. i have been living at this place for about 3 years. She has only been working for about a year. Besides our professional relstionship we have not really talked about anything else.

Within the last 2 weeks I have seen her out @ a few bars that I regular. But she is always with a guy but she goes out of her way to tell me she is single. To add to this i have found out that she is good friends with another girl I know. So we have a mutal friend. Which I have thought it would work to my advantage but it has not.

What I would like to do is take her out solo. Just me and her. But I need a good way to work into that since we do know each other but dont really know each other.

Any thoughts?

Thanks
unixguy
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

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She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Spiter

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Sweet bro, I wanna date your apartment manager.

Heh, throw a party in your apartment and give her a card invitation =) Or maybe that won't fly with her. Invite her to a party somewhere else, or go out to a bar together one night. Just takes some dj style to ask her out, it's not really different than any other girl.
 

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PRMoon

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I'd just do the casual approach and ask if she'd like to meet you at your mutual bar for drinks somenight. Not like she doesn't know where it is. If she says yes you should just meet up and do your thug thizzle
 

PRMoon

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I'd just do the casual approach and ask if she'd like to meet you at your mutual bar for drinks somenight. Not like she doesn't know where it is. If she says yes you should just meet up and do your thug thizzle

Oh yeah make sure you make her sign a compliance form saying she won't evict you if things go sour.
 
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