"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I wanna date my apartment manager ..

unixguy

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I wanna date my apartment manager ..
here is the deal .. i have been living at this place for about 3 years. She has only been working for about a year. Besides our professional relstionship we have not really talked about anything else.

Within the last 2 weeks I have seen her out @ a few bars that I regular. But she is always with a guy but she goes out of her way to tell me she is single. To add to this i have found out that she is good friends with another girl I know. So we have a mutal friend. Which I have thought it would work to my advantage but it has not.

What I would like to do is take her out solo. Just me and her. But I need a good way to work into that since we do know each other but dont really know each other.

Any thoughts?

Thanks
unixguy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Spiter

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Sweet bro, I wanna date your apartment manager.

Heh, throw a party in your apartment and give her a card invitation =) Or maybe that won't fly with her. Invite her to a party somewhere else, or go out to a bar together one night. Just takes some dj style to ask her out, it's not really different than any other girl.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PRMoon

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I'd just do the casual approach and ask if she'd like to meet you at your mutual bar for drinks somenight. Not like she doesn't know where it is. If she says yes you should just meet up and do your thug thizzle
 

PRMoon

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I'd just do the casual approach and ask if she'd like to meet you at your mutual bar for drinks somenight. Not like she doesn't know where it is. If she says yes you should just meet up and do your thug thizzle

Oh yeah make sure you make her sign a compliance form saying she won't evict you if things go sour.
 
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