"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Still reading ba blah blah blah blah fear blah blah blah
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There's a lot of advice on this website that's designed to attract a low quality partner. Does it work, probably, because there are a lot of fvcked up ppl out there.

When the women's speak, and they introduce a thought that contradicts your belief system, you are advised to listen and consider the words IF you are looking for higher quality in a female

If you are looking for a cvm dumpster, follow all advice advocated here, to the letter.
 

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There's a lot of advice on this website that's designed to attract a low quality partner. Does it work, probably, because there are a lot of fvcked up ppl out there.

When the women's speak, and they introduce a thought that contradicts your belief system, you are advised to listen and consider the words IF you are looking for higher quality in a female

If you are looking for a cvm dumpster, follow all advice advocated here, to the letter.
What are some examples/advice for attracting higher quality women? I wouldn't mind seeing it, may be I'll learn something, perhaps in a new thread?
 

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What are some examples/advice for attracting higher quality women? I wouldn't mind seeing it, may be I'll learn something, perhaps in a new thread?
It gets pointed out every now and then. It's easier to identify when its stated inline
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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And all I can see is more nonsensical female dribble thats more smoke and mirrors then any actual substance in regards to how men should be men.

I've thrown down the gauntlet and I've said I'll stop if you'd can provide me just 1....only one example.

And still waiting for 1 single shred of evidential proof of ur genuine wisdom.

Of course you'll have those White Knights mama boys here cheering you on, then if you'd game I'll provide more examples. But do try to at least be more coherent rather then being emotional....

Impress me ladies with ur genuine intellectual capabilities !
 

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Spaz, You fancy yourself as a mentor and while you give sound advice around guys not getting in their heads too much about making approaches and not being vulnerable with their emotions, you also push this thing where guys are supposed to completing disregard what you see as a female imperative around sexual behaviour.

I mean you suggested in another thread about a girl who couldn’t get an orgasm with her bf to just blindfold her, tie her to a bed, cut her clothes off with a knife and her fear response would turn her on or something. Like you assume that that is a standard move that will work on women based on what seems to be your personal perspective or sexual interests, without any regard for what her sexual interests may be (not all women want to have sex forced on them by their boyfriends, this should be a no brainer for even a 13 yr old boy). Now your going on about interactions with a rapists who claimed women orgasmed during rape? Did you hang out with a rapist? Awesome, great company I bet. Maybe they can post here and share their pearls of wisdom. Let’s make it that kind of a site.

I think that’s risky advice to give to any man wanting to learn how to improve his game, female perspective or not. This isn’t the day and age where the forefathers could probably do that and it was accepted as part of the norm. We don’t live in those times and those times ain’t coming back. Any guy who operates game based on what our forefathers could do 400 yrs ago will end up in prison and on the sex offender list. Is it fair? Maybe not? Is it the reality? Yes.

I think Spaz, it’s not just us ladies who have to be mindful of the advice we are giving. Do we understand men? Not fully no, of course not. We are not men.

Do you understand women? Not fully, no of course not you are not a woman.

Given your rape theory and the suggestion that I referenced above, I’m am starting to understand you a lot better though, and it’s disturbing.
Changing and expanding my meaning upon ur own female biased narrative is not going 2 work AJ.

In that postings I've narrated how a woman WILL respond s€xually by either intense PERCEPTION of fear or pleasure.

I did say 2 be judicious in commenting when giving advice to men who may or may not act on it.

I did say to thread carefully before carrying on with the topic on rape.

I did say I know the truth.

You might not see some of the inherent dangers of females posting their worldview on men in this site but as we all could see you most definitely could see the inherent dangers of men posting topics such as rape simply because you have a 360° view/knowledge of being a woman.

But you don't have a 360°view/knowledge of being a man, you assume you do but it's still very much based on feminine worldview.

Even with my years of experience, interactions, cohabitation and knowledge on women, I'd be lucky to even claim a 5° view/knowledge of women.

Now do you understand why I purposely touched on rape when holding this discussion with you?
 

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Wow you guys hijacked the crap out of this thread!
 
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