"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I told my mom, bad mistake.

Dark Chivalry

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Making decisions is one of the things a man has to do. You are aware of the risks and the rewards. When a man has gathered the information, he sits down and thinks and then he makes a decision and takes responsbility for it.

If you enjoy spending time with her for its own sake you can keep seeing her without sex. You could let her know you cannot be exclusive with her because of the age of consent thing and find another 16yo to sex with if you want to get laid. If you are seeing this girl just to get laid, you can either break up and get laid with another girl or sleep with this girl and make sure you are both minimizing the risks. You can even LJBF her for now and sleep with her when it becomes legal.
The other thing is that if she does it, she is risking jail to sex you. Not exactly a wise thing to do. She may be the adult in the legal sense, but you are the man and sometimes you have to protect a woman against her own foolishness.

Choose wisely.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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navyseal2101

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Alright. I got this figured out. Thanks alot everybody that helped. GL in your lives.
 

just so suave

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Not immoral, but illegal, so yeah, your mom could put her in jail if she knew you had sex. What exactly does your mom know.
whats the age consent then?? in Britain its only 16
 

navyseal2101

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it is 16 here, but if you are 16 you can only have sex with ppl 16 and 17. At 18 anybody less that your age is off limits and 18 and older is fine. It's a PA law, so dosent apply to all of U.S. I wan't it changed asap, but what can I do, mabye I should pay attentiuon in social studies...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dark Chivalry

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Those 4 years age diffrence laws are much better IMO. It keeps immoral stuff illegal while teens with a small ae difference can still get laid legally.
 

navyseal2101

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Well its not that I dont like, its that there are like 2 age of consents really.
 

wolf116

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tell your mom that you don't feel as though you can trust telling her anything anymore and don't.
 

theunflushables

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Plus is your mom really going to get her thrown in jail? That law was pretty much made so dad's can get their daughter's dumb ass boyfriend in jail. Unless your mom is super strict I don't really think you have to worry about it so much.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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navyseal2101

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Yea, I doubt she would, so I should be alright.
 
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