"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I told my mom, bad mistake.

Dark Chivalry

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Making decisions is one of the things a man has to do. You are aware of the risks and the rewards. When a man has gathered the information, he sits down and thinks and then he makes a decision and takes responsbility for it.

If you enjoy spending time with her for its own sake you can keep seeing her without sex. You could let her know you cannot be exclusive with her because of the age of consent thing and find another 16yo to sex with if you want to get laid. If you are seeing this girl just to get laid, you can either break up and get laid with another girl or sleep with this girl and make sure you are both minimizing the risks. You can even LJBF her for now and sleep with her when it becomes legal.
The other thing is that if she does it, she is risking jail to sex you. Not exactly a wise thing to do. She may be the adult in the legal sense, but you are the man and sometimes you have to protect a woman against her own foolishness.

Choose wisely.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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navyseal2101

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Alright. I got this figured out. Thanks alot everybody that helped. GL in your lives.
 

just so suave

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Not immoral, but illegal, so yeah, your mom could put her in jail if she knew you had sex. What exactly does your mom know.
whats the age consent then?? in Britain its only 16
 

navyseal2101

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it is 16 here, but if you are 16 you can only have sex with ppl 16 and 17. At 18 anybody less that your age is off limits and 18 and older is fine. It's a PA law, so dosent apply to all of U.S. I wan't it changed asap, but what can I do, mabye I should pay attentiuon in social studies...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dark Chivalry

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Those 4 years age diffrence laws are much better IMO. It keeps immoral stuff illegal while teens with a small ae difference can still get laid legally.
 

navyseal2101

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Well its not that I dont like, its that there are like 2 age of consents really.
 

wolf116

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tell your mom that you don't feel as though you can trust telling her anything anymore and don't.
 

theunflushables

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Plus is your mom really going to get her thrown in jail? That law was pretty much made so dad's can get their daughter's dumb ass boyfriend in jail. Unless your mom is super strict I don't really think you have to worry about it so much.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

navyseal2101

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Yea, I doubt she would, so I should be alright.
 
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