"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I told my mom, bad mistake.

Dark Chivalry

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Making decisions is one of the things a man has to do. You are aware of the risks and the rewards. When a man has gathered the information, he sits down and thinks and then he makes a decision and takes responsbility for it.

If you enjoy spending time with her for its own sake you can keep seeing her without sex. You could let her know you cannot be exclusive with her because of the age of consent thing and find another 16yo to sex with if you want to get laid. If you are seeing this girl just to get laid, you can either break up and get laid with another girl or sleep with this girl and make sure you are both minimizing the risks. You can even LJBF her for now and sleep with her when it becomes legal.
The other thing is that if she does it, she is risking jail to sex you. Not exactly a wise thing to do. She may be the adult in the legal sense, but you are the man and sometimes you have to protect a woman against her own foolishness.

Choose wisely.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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navyseal2101

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Alright. I got this figured out. Thanks alot everybody that helped. GL in your lives.
 

just so suave

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Not immoral, but illegal, so yeah, your mom could put her in jail if she knew you had sex. What exactly does your mom know.
whats the age consent then?? in Britain its only 16
 

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it is 16 here, but if you are 16 you can only have sex with ppl 16 and 17. At 18 anybody less that your age is off limits and 18 and older is fine. It's a PA law, so dosent apply to all of U.S. I wan't it changed asap, but what can I do, mabye I should pay attentiuon in social studies...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dark Chivalry

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Those 4 years age diffrence laws are much better IMO. It keeps immoral stuff illegal while teens with a small ae difference can still get laid legally.
 

navyseal2101

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Well its not that I dont like, its that there are like 2 age of consents really.
 

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tell your mom that you don't feel as though you can trust telling her anything anymore and don't.
 

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Plus is your mom really going to get her thrown in jail? That law was pretty much made so dad's can get their daughter's dumb ass boyfriend in jail. Unless your mom is super strict I don't really think you have to worry about it so much.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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navyseal2101

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Yea, I doubt she would, so I should be alright.
 
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