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I called up a girl I met with a couple days ago, and set up a date with her to go rock climbing in a couple days.

I could tell she was very surprised by the idea, but was excited...she hasn't done it before, and she felt a little uneasy. At the same time, she's very curious about it, and I think it will definately make for a good second date.
 

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Rock climbing is a good action date. Are you going to at least let her get a little practice on a indoor climbing wall?
 
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Yeah there's a cool indoor gym in the area and I plan on taking her there.

I have only climbed a couple times, so it's just for fun!
 
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Cool, see if you can belay her yourself. Wouldn't want some other guy having all the fun looking up her shorts. :p
 
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i just did this exact thing on a first date. it went pretty well, but may have been a little much for a first date with a girl i barely know. but it was fun.

good luck, mate.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Cool, see if you can belay her yourself. Wouldn't want some other guy having all the fun looking up her shorts. :p
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The problem is that I've only climbed a couple times, and I don't know how to belay.

I'll try to take the class before we go, but if not, I guess it's not that much of a big deal.
 
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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
The problem is that I've only climbed a couple times, and I don't know how to belay.

I'll try to take the class before we go, but if not, I guess it's not that much of a big deal.
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Trust me, there is a difference when you are controlling the ropes. If you're into it, learn how to do it. You'll appreciate having the skill. ;)
 
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Originally posted by School
Not if she is one of those manicured types, with the long nails....... :(
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I don't think that's going to be a problem. Sounds like she was surprised but excited about trying it.
 
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