"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think my skills are half decent now, but...

Exhumed

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I need to meet girls.

Here's the situation.

I'm going off to college at the end of June...summer session. I plan to join plenty of cool and interesting clubs there, and in the meantime, I'm hard at work on my appearance. I used to be a pretty ugly kid, and lots of time and money has been spent and is being spent on making me dead sexy so I can get laid as well as lead a happy and successful life. :D

My friends generally get girls from school, or occasionally cold approach when we're out. But we're hardly ever out anymore as my friend has fallen in love with the cannabis. If I want to go out and do something, he whines about spending money...admittedly, my dad just hands me money now that my rents are divorced, so it's not an issue for me. At my school, my reputation...has improved, but I don't think I can get anybody in the class of '09, and that's who I have classes with.

So what can I do NOW? Should I continue just spending time working on my appearance so that when I meet college b*tches I can execute grrreat vengeance upon them with fuuurious rebukes; and they shall know that I am the LORD, when I shall lay my vengeance upon them (with mah d!ck)? :trouble:

Or is there a way I should meet girls where I can just do it up solo? Or with one other friend maybe? I'd feel silly just going to the mall and mackin on babes, and I suppose the under 21 club is an option, though it's looked down upon socially.

So what am I not thinking of? How can I meet girls to practice mah game with? I can flirt and hold a conversation and whatnot, and I'm not that shy anymore...I want to make some cold approaches and close properly, or hell, just meet girls.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Analyzeit

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Yeah, just try make friends with them.

Dunno how things work where you from, put I'm pretty sure there must be parties and stuff, get the word about em and fly solo, I'm sure you must know someone who you can talk to so you don't look awkward when you first come in, then just cold approach but do it in a more friendly talkative way and less of a "I want to Fvck you" way (lol actually seen a mate pull that off...legend) anyway just try make friends with the people that go out.

If you can't find anything then go to the under 21 club, you haven't really got much to lose
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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