"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I think my skills are half decent now, but...

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I need to meet girls.

Here's the situation.

I'm going off to college at the end of June...summer session. I plan to join plenty of cool and interesting clubs there, and in the meantime, I'm hard at work on my appearance. I used to be a pretty ugly kid, and lots of time and money has been spent and is being spent on making me dead sexy so I can get laid as well as lead a happy and successful life. :D

My friends generally get girls from school, or occasionally cold approach when we're out. But we're hardly ever out anymore as my friend has fallen in love with the cannabis. If I want to go out and do something, he whines about spending money...admittedly, my dad just hands me money now that my rents are divorced, so it's not an issue for me. At my school, my reputation...has improved, but I don't think I can get anybody in the class of '09, and that's who I have classes with.

So what can I do NOW? Should I continue just spending time working on my appearance so that when I meet college b*tches I can execute grrreat vengeance upon them with fuuurious rebukes; and they shall know that I am the LORD, when I shall lay my vengeance upon them (with mah d!ck)? :trouble:

Or is there a way I should meet girls where I can just do it up solo? Or with one other friend maybe? I'd feel silly just going to the mall and mackin on babes, and I suppose the under 21 club is an option, though it's looked down upon socially.

So what am I not thinking of? How can I meet girls to practice mah game with? I can flirt and hold a conversation and whatnot, and I'm not that shy anymore...I want to make some cold approaches and close properly, or hell, just meet girls.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah, just try make friends with them.

Dunno how things work where you from, put I'm pretty sure there must be parties and stuff, get the word about em and fly solo, I'm sure you must know someone who you can talk to so you don't look awkward when you first come in, then just cold approach but do it in a more friendly talkative way and less of a "I want to Fvck you" way (lol actually seen a mate pull that off...legend) anyway just try make friends with the people that go out.

If you can't find anything then go to the under 21 club, you haven't really got much to lose
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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