"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think my skills are half decent now, but...

Exhumed

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I need to meet girls.

Here's the situation.

I'm going off to college at the end of June...summer session. I plan to join plenty of cool and interesting clubs there, and in the meantime, I'm hard at work on my appearance. I used to be a pretty ugly kid, and lots of time and money has been spent and is being spent on making me dead sexy so I can get laid as well as lead a happy and successful life. :D

My friends generally get girls from school, or occasionally cold approach when we're out. But we're hardly ever out anymore as my friend has fallen in love with the cannabis. If I want to go out and do something, he whines about spending money...admittedly, my dad just hands me money now that my rents are divorced, so it's not an issue for me. At my school, my reputation...has improved, but I don't think I can get anybody in the class of '09, and that's who I have classes with.

So what can I do NOW? Should I continue just spending time working on my appearance so that when I meet college b*tches I can execute grrreat vengeance upon them with fuuurious rebukes; and they shall know that I am the LORD, when I shall lay my vengeance upon them (with mah d!ck)? :trouble:

Or is there a way I should meet girls where I can just do it up solo? Or with one other friend maybe? I'd feel silly just going to the mall and mackin on babes, and I suppose the under 21 club is an option, though it's looked down upon socially.

So what am I not thinking of? How can I meet girls to practice mah game with? I can flirt and hold a conversation and whatnot, and I'm not that shy anymore...I want to make some cold approaches and close properly, or hell, just meet girls.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Analyzeit

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Yeah, just try make friends with them.

Dunno how things work where you from, put I'm pretty sure there must be parties and stuff, get the word about em and fly solo, I'm sure you must know someone who you can talk to so you don't look awkward when you first come in, then just cold approach but do it in a more friendly talkative way and less of a "I want to Fvck you" way (lol actually seen a mate pull that off...legend) anyway just try make friends with the people that go out.

If you can't find anything then go to the under 21 club, you haven't really got much to lose
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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