Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I think Im addicted :(!!!!

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I feel like I might be addicted to this power..I have learned here..I dont want this..but everytime I date someone..or meet someone..I always meet someone new..then want to date her/**** her...

Im not playing games..or trying to be funny..why is this? will this wear off? I want a gf...I will have one..when I really find someone i can be with...which I have....but then I go out to a bar and I KNOW I CAN PULL WOMEN..SO I DO IT..

can you relate to me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I hear ya bro. Deathdealer seems to be jealous of guys who can regularly score attractive girls. Message to you double D: envy isn't in the nature of a Don Juan.
I actually posted a similar message recently. I wish I could help you but I'm looking for advice as well.
 
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wtf is this? playschool? .. *sigh*.. anyways.........................................

Would you people grow the f*ck up?!?:mad:

frivolousz21: Its called self dicipline! If you want to stop doing it, then STOP yourself from doing it, if you see an HB, look at her, think to yourself "I am better than her, i am strong and i WILL NOT touch her... I have a gf that i like alot, and i WILL control myself!"

When i decided to get into a LTR with my girl it was a HUGE decision for me, and a hard one too, but just like any other hard decision to make, it took alot of willpower and self dicipline in order to accomplish this, and yes, it WAS hard to go out and NOT pull chicks etc... but within time you will find it alot easiyer to "control yourself". This is about YOU, and YOUR WILLPOWER to change the way YOU are atm! Its something that will take a while.. might take you a week, might take u several months, that depends on YOU, as a person. Goodluck.


Laterz...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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*yawn*
 
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So pimp its scary

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In the movie the 'tao of steve', the main character gives a name to this 'ailment' that I myself suffer from, he called it 'Male Insanity Syndrome'.

That is the condition where you find one girl, then once things get good and comfortable, you start to think, 'Hey, if I got this girl to love me, maybe I can trade-up to a little bit better.'

That's happened to me personnally about 3-4 times that I can think of off the top of my head.

No, its not going to change, unless you decide that you will make the situation change... I personnally don't want to change that yet.
 
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