"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

I think Im addicted :(!!!!

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
I feel like I might be addicted to this power..I have learned here..I dont want this..but everytime I date someone..or meet someone..I always meet someone new..then want to date her/**** her...

Im not playing games..or trying to be funny..why is this? will this wear off? I want a gf...I will have one..when I really find someone i can be with...which I have....but then I go out to a bar and I KNOW I CAN PULL WOMEN..SO I DO IT..

can you relate to me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Luveno

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2004
Messages
1,107
Reaction score
12
Age
44
I hear ya bro. Deathdealer seems to be jealous of guys who can regularly score attractive girls. Message to you double D: envy isn't in the nature of a Don Juan.
I actually posted a similar message recently. I wish I could help you but I'm looking for advice as well.
 

Climax

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 2, 2004
Messages
2,329
Reaction score
5
wtf is this? playschool? .. *sigh*.. anyways.........................................

Would you people grow the f*ck up?!?:mad:

frivolousz21: Its called self dicipline! If you want to stop doing it, then STOP yourself from doing it, if you see an HB, look at her, think to yourself "I am better than her, i am strong and i WILL NOT touch her... I have a gf that i like alot, and i WILL control myself!"

When i decided to get into a LTR with my girl it was a HUGE decision for me, and a hard one too, but just like any other hard decision to make, it took alot of willpower and self dicipline in order to accomplish this, and yes, it WAS hard to go out and NOT pull chicks etc... but within time you will find it alot easiyer to "control yourself". This is about YOU, and YOUR WILLPOWER to change the way YOU are atm! Its something that will take a while.. might take you a week, might take u several months, that depends on YOU, as a person. Goodluck.


Laterz...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

AMF

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 5, 2003
Messages
461
Reaction score
1
Age
43
*yawn*
 

So pimp its scary

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2003
Messages
1,677
Reaction score
3
Age
44
Location
In the C-A-N-A-D-A-Eh!
In the movie the 'tao of steve', the main character gives a name to this 'ailment' that I myself suffer from, he called it 'Male Insanity Syndrome'.

That is the condition where you find one girl, then once things get good and comfortable, you start to think, 'Hey, if I got this girl to love me, maybe I can trade-up to a little bit better.'

That's happened to me personnally about 3-4 times that I can think of off the top of my head.

No, its not going to change, unless you decide that you will make the situation change... I personnally don't want to change that yet.
 
Top