"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think Im addicted :(!!!!

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frivolousz21

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I feel like I might be addicted to this power..I have learned here..I dont want this..but everytime I date someone..or meet someone..I always meet someone new..then want to date her/**** her...

Im not playing games..or trying to be funny..why is this? will this wear off? I want a gf...I will have one..when I really find someone i can be with...which I have....but then I go out to a bar and I KNOW I CAN PULL WOMEN..SO I DO IT..

can you relate to me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Luveno

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I hear ya bro. Deathdealer seems to be jealous of guys who can regularly score attractive girls. Message to you double D: envy isn't in the nature of a Don Juan.
I actually posted a similar message recently. I wish I could help you but I'm looking for advice as well.
 
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wtf is this? playschool? .. *sigh*.. anyways.........................................

Would you people grow the f*ck up?!?:mad:

frivolousz21: Its called self dicipline! If you want to stop doing it, then STOP yourself from doing it, if you see an HB, look at her, think to yourself "I am better than her, i am strong and i WILL NOT touch her... I have a gf that i like alot, and i WILL control myself!"

When i decided to get into a LTR with my girl it was a HUGE decision for me, and a hard one too, but just like any other hard decision to make, it took alot of willpower and self dicipline in order to accomplish this, and yes, it WAS hard to go out and NOT pull chicks etc... but within time you will find it alot easiyer to "control yourself". This is about YOU, and YOUR WILLPOWER to change the way YOU are atm! Its something that will take a while.. might take you a week, might take u several months, that depends on YOU, as a person. Goodluck.


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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*yawn*
 
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So pimp its scary

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In the movie the 'tao of steve', the main character gives a name to this 'ailment' that I myself suffer from, he called it 'Male Insanity Syndrome'.

That is the condition where you find one girl, then once things get good and comfortable, you start to think, 'Hey, if I got this girl to love me, maybe I can trade-up to a little bit better.'

That's happened to me personnally about 3-4 times that I can think of off the top of my head.

No, its not going to change, unless you decide that you will make the situation change... I personnally don't want to change that yet.
 
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