"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think Im addicted :(!!!!

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I feel like I might be addicted to this power..I have learned here..I dont want this..but everytime I date someone..or meet someone..I always meet someone new..then want to date her/**** her...

Im not playing games..or trying to be funny..why is this? will this wear off? I want a gf...I will have one..when I really find someone i can be with...which I have....but then I go out to a bar and I KNOW I CAN PULL WOMEN..SO I DO IT..

can you relate to me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I hear ya bro. Deathdealer seems to be jealous of guys who can regularly score attractive girls. Message to you double D: envy isn't in the nature of a Don Juan.
I actually posted a similar message recently. I wish I could help you but I'm looking for advice as well.
 
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wtf is this? playschool? .. *sigh*.. anyways.........................................

Would you people grow the f*ck up?!?:mad:

frivolousz21: Its called self dicipline! If you want to stop doing it, then STOP yourself from doing it, if you see an HB, look at her, think to yourself "I am better than her, i am strong and i WILL NOT touch her... I have a gf that i like alot, and i WILL control myself!"

When i decided to get into a LTR with my girl it was a HUGE decision for me, and a hard one too, but just like any other hard decision to make, it took alot of willpower and self dicipline in order to accomplish this, and yes, it WAS hard to go out and NOT pull chicks etc... but within time you will find it alot easiyer to "control yourself". This is about YOU, and YOUR WILLPOWER to change the way YOU are atm! Its something that will take a while.. might take you a week, might take u several months, that depends on YOU, as a person. Goodluck.


Laterz...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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*yawn*
 
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So pimp its scary

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In the movie the 'tao of steve', the main character gives a name to this 'ailment' that I myself suffer from, he called it 'Male Insanity Syndrome'.

That is the condition where you find one girl, then once things get good and comfortable, you start to think, 'Hey, if I got this girl to love me, maybe I can trade-up to a little bit better.'

That's happened to me personnally about 3-4 times that I can think of off the top of my head.

No, its not going to change, unless you decide that you will make the situation change... I personnally don't want to change that yet.
 
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