You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This. From now on, if you have a supposed 7+, prove it. If you don't want to oust it publicly, show it to us in DMs.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Not posting face for you creeps but she told me I bruised her ass the same color as her thong. She said she wants me to do it again though
Bro that’s just weird. I posted a pic of her ass for you doubters
I never had a woman asking me to put her face in the toilet. I'm proud of this fact.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Definitely a woman
Anyone can have an ass. Even a man can have an ass. It's not weird to not want to know if a unicorn is a unicorn, is all I'm saying. Even if you block out the eyes, she can still have eyes ****ed like a pistol.
Not arguing I get it lots of people want to puff out their chest on the internet. Anyways found out this chick was flirting with other dudes so I dumped her on the spot. Fun while it lasted.
Okay, so now you have no emotional connection to her. Where's the details? Again, PM it to me if you want for privacy.
Were you looking for exclusivity with her?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
True that.
She acts like she wants to be exclusive with me and wants something more. She doesn’t want me to see other girls and just see each other. I said I’m still talking to other girls and she says she will talk to other dudes but not sleep with them. She still asked where they lived.
