I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This. From now on, if you have a supposed 7+, prove it. If you don't want to oust it publicly, show it to us in DMs.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Not posting face for you creeps but she told me I bruised her ass the same color as her thong. She said she wants me to do it again though
Bro that’s just weird. I posted a pic of her ass for you doubters
I never had a woman asking me to put her face in the toilet. I'm proud of this fact.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Definitely a woman
Anyone can have an ass. Even a man can have an ass. It's not weird to not want to know if a unicorn is a unicorn, is all I'm saying. Even if you block out the eyes, she can still have eyes ****ed like a pistol.
Not arguing I get it lots of people want to puff out their chest on the internet. Anyways found out this chick was flirting with other dudes so I dumped her on the spot. Fun while it lasted.
Okay, so now you have no emotional connection to her. Where's the details? Again, PM it to me if you want for privacy.
Were you looking for exclusivity with her?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
True that.
She acts like she wants to be exclusive with me and wants something more. She doesn’t want me to see other girls and just see each other. I said I’m still talking to other girls and she says she will talk to other dudes but not sleep with them. She still asked where they lived.
