Dhoulmagus
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Not really a good combination because I dont like interacting with them at all
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Hah I find it ironic that youre giving out advice all of a sudden. Do share more of this enlightened new way of thinking since you feel that the principles of this site is so wrongThis is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Post of the year !! :crackup:skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Men should spin plates. It doesn't matter if you like woman or not. There are lots of sluts who give up p*ssy fast.skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Skinny, for someone who loves posting threads on every little meaningless piece of theory you read here, you sure have a hard time understanding what you are reading. I suppose rejecting it provides you with an excuse not to follow any advice that is too much work. Perhaps chewing theory is like candy to you.skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Well I certainly hope you're translating this new realization into action. You went from constantly asking for advice to dishing it out.As for the poster who talked about me giving advice - I realized that I actually know more than most of the "veteran" posters on here. Think of it as spreading the wealth.
Dude...its "KAAAAMEEEEEHAAAAAMEEEEEEHAAAAA." Don't ever misquote DBZ again"Time to Power up to 9,000 KAAAAAAMEEEEEEHHAAAAAA"
You know next to nothing. If you didn't you wouldn't feel the need to ask... as you'd already KNOW. You form confusing questions as you're a confused person. Life just doesn't seem to be clear to you and you find it hard facing up to reality. It's also like there's some kind of unconscious barrier inside you that prevents you from taking on board "what is". You'd rather believe your own deluded ways than ours even though we all back them up SOLIDLY.skinnyguy said:Well I admit I made a mistake in framing my argument. It's actually dependent on age.
If you're 20 years old and just want to fvck a bunch of slvts then yes, plate spinning could work. Although it doesn't answer the OPs concern.
Since I am in the professional world, this won't work for me. The women I deal with on a regular basis don't get plastered at clubs every weekend. Acting like a douche would be counterproductive.
As for the poster who talked about me giving advice - I realized that I actually know more than most of the "veteran" posters on here. Think of it as spreading the wealth.
If you find the need to constantly attack me over the internet, then you're the one with issues. You're clearly insecure with yourself if you find the need to pick on people who have different views than you.adam225 said:You know next to nothing. If you didn't you wouldn't feel the need to ask... as you'd already KNOW. You form confusing questions as you're a confused person. Life just doesn't seem to be clear to you and you find it hard facing up to reality. It's also like there's some kind of unconscious barrier inside you that prevents you from taking on board "what is". You'd rather believe your own deluded ways than ours even though we all back them up SOLIDLY.
You need to realise that most of us real DJ's are living our lives happily (unlike you). We are complete regardless, as we have the most important thing - OUR SELVES.... So, wouldn't it make sense to at least try your VERY hardest to understand what we're getting at ?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I think he knows what is going on, just wants to confuse the new guys and antagonize the Experienced ones because he can.skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Didnt misquote half the time Goku doesn't even finish itJoeMarron said:Well I certainly hope you're translating this new realization into action. You went from constantly asking for advice to dishing it out.
Dude...its "KAAAAMEEEEEHAAAAAMEEEEEEHAAAAA." Don't ever misquote DBZ again![]()
Hah ah ok I got you. You're powering up and haven't fired it yet. I take back my earlier comment. Dhoulmagus continue on with your threadSolomon said:Didnt misquote half the time Goku doesn't even finish it
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zoBcr8Pz-Yg
1:31
He doesn't even finish it until the 2nd going
heh
I'm not attacking you. I'm just saying "how it is". There's a difference....skinnyguy said:If you find the need to constantly attack me over the internet, then you're the one with issues. You're clearly insecure with yourself if you find the need to pick on people who have different views than you.
You're not a real DJ. Real DJ's would never even find out about this forum cause they don't live on the internet.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.