Dhoulmagus
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Not really a good combination because I dont like interacting with them at all
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Hah I find it ironic that youre giving out advice all of a sudden. Do share more of this enlightened new way of thinking since you feel that the principles of this site is so wrongThis is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Post of the year !! :crackup:skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Men should spin plates. It doesn't matter if you like woman or not. There are lots of sluts who give up p*ssy fast.skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Skinny, for someone who loves posting threads on every little meaningless piece of theory you read here, you sure have a hard time understanding what you are reading. I suppose rejecting it provides you with an excuse not to follow any advice that is too much work. Perhaps chewing theory is like candy to you.skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well I certainly hope you're translating this new realization into action. You went from constantly asking for advice to dishing it out.As for the poster who talked about me giving advice - I realized that I actually know more than most of the "veteran" posters on here. Think of it as spreading the wealth.
Dude...its "KAAAAMEEEEEHAAAAAMEEEEEEHAAAAA." Don't ever misquote DBZ again"Time to Power up to 9,000 KAAAAAAMEEEEEEHHAAAAAA"
You know next to nothing. If you didn't you wouldn't feel the need to ask... as you'd already KNOW. You form confusing questions as you're a confused person. Life just doesn't seem to be clear to you and you find it hard facing up to reality. It's also like there's some kind of unconscious barrier inside you that prevents you from taking on board "what is". You'd rather believe your own deluded ways than ours even though we all back them up SOLIDLY.skinnyguy said:Well I admit I made a mistake in framing my argument. It's actually dependent on age.
If you're 20 years old and just want to fvck a bunch of slvts then yes, plate spinning could work. Although it doesn't answer the OPs concern.
Since I am in the professional world, this won't work for me. The women I deal with on a regular basis don't get plastered at clubs every weekend. Acting like a douche would be counterproductive.
As for the poster who talked about me giving advice - I realized that I actually know more than most of the "veteran" posters on here. Think of it as spreading the wealth.
If you find the need to constantly attack me over the internet, then you're the one with issues. You're clearly insecure with yourself if you find the need to pick on people who have different views than you.adam225 said:You know next to nothing. If you didn't you wouldn't feel the need to ask... as you'd already KNOW. You form confusing questions as you're a confused person. Life just doesn't seem to be clear to you and you find it hard facing up to reality. It's also like there's some kind of unconscious barrier inside you that prevents you from taking on board "what is". You'd rather believe your own deluded ways than ours even though we all back them up SOLIDLY.
You need to realise that most of us real DJ's are living our lives happily (unlike you). We are complete regardless, as we have the most important thing - OUR SELVES.... So, wouldn't it make sense to at least try your VERY hardest to understand what we're getting at ?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I think he knows what is going on, just wants to confuse the new guys and antagonize the Experienced ones because he can.skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Didnt misquote half the time Goku doesn't even finish itJoeMarron said:Well I certainly hope you're translating this new realization into action. You went from constantly asking for advice to dishing it out.
Dude...its "KAAAAMEEEEEHAAAAAMEEEEEEHAAAAA." Don't ever misquote DBZ again![]()
Hah ah ok I got you. You're powering up and haven't fired it yet. I take back my earlier comment. Dhoulmagus continue on with your threadSolomon said:Didnt misquote half the time Goku doesn't even finish it
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zoBcr8Pz-Yg
1:31
He doesn't even finish it until the 2nd going
heh
I'm not attacking you. I'm just saying "how it is". There's a difference....skinnyguy said:If you find the need to constantly attack me over the internet, then you're the one with issues. You're clearly insecure with yourself if you find the need to pick on people who have different views than you.
You're not a real DJ. Real DJ's would never even find out about this forum cause they don't live on the internet.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.