Dhoulmagus
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Not really a good combination because I dont like interacting with them at all
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Hah I find it ironic that youre giving out advice all of a sudden. Do share more of this enlightened new way of thinking since you feel that the principles of this site is so wrongThis is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Post of the year !! :crackup:skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Men should spin plates. It doesn't matter if you like woman or not. There are lots of sluts who give up p*ssy fast.skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Skinny, for someone who loves posting threads on every little meaningless piece of theory you read here, you sure have a hard time understanding what you are reading. I suppose rejecting it provides you with an excuse not to follow any advice that is too much work. Perhaps chewing theory is like candy to you.skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well I certainly hope you're translating this new realization into action. You went from constantly asking for advice to dishing it out.As for the poster who talked about me giving advice - I realized that I actually know more than most of the "veteran" posters on here. Think of it as spreading the wealth.
Dude...its "KAAAAMEEEEEHAAAAAMEEEEEEHAAAAA." Don't ever misquote DBZ again"Time to Power up to 9,000 KAAAAAAMEEEEEEHHAAAAAA"
You know next to nothing. If you didn't you wouldn't feel the need to ask... as you'd already KNOW. You form confusing questions as you're a confused person. Life just doesn't seem to be clear to you and you find it hard facing up to reality. It's also like there's some kind of unconscious barrier inside you that prevents you from taking on board "what is". You'd rather believe your own deluded ways than ours even though we all back them up SOLIDLY.skinnyguy said:Well I admit I made a mistake in framing my argument. It's actually dependent on age.
If you're 20 years old and just want to fvck a bunch of slvts then yes, plate spinning could work. Although it doesn't answer the OPs concern.
Since I am in the professional world, this won't work for me. The women I deal with on a regular basis don't get plastered at clubs every weekend. Acting like a douche would be counterproductive.
As for the poster who talked about me giving advice - I realized that I actually know more than most of the "veteran" posters on here. Think of it as spreading the wealth.
If you find the need to constantly attack me over the internet, then you're the one with issues. You're clearly insecure with yourself if you find the need to pick on people who have different views than you.adam225 said:You know next to nothing. If you didn't you wouldn't feel the need to ask... as you'd already KNOW. You form confusing questions as you're a confused person. Life just doesn't seem to be clear to you and you find it hard facing up to reality. It's also like there's some kind of unconscious barrier inside you that prevents you from taking on board "what is". You'd rather believe your own deluded ways than ours even though we all back them up SOLIDLY.
You need to realise that most of us real DJ's are living our lives happily (unlike you). We are complete regardless, as we have the most important thing - OUR SELVES.... So, wouldn't it make sense to at least try your VERY hardest to understand what we're getting at ?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I think he knows what is going on, just wants to confuse the new guys and antagonize the Experienced ones because he can.skinnyguy said:This is the problem with most guys around here and why they have problems with women.
They hate women because of how they have been treated by them, but seek out sex at clubs. It's just a recipe for disaster.
The folks who post on here need to stop with the "spinning plates" mentality and realize that they are just setting themselves up for failure and a lifetime of solitude.
If you really WANT to be alone...then by all means go for it. But I think most guys on here don't want to be alone when they are 50.
Didnt misquote half the time Goku doesn't even finish itJoeMarron said:Well I certainly hope you're translating this new realization into action. You went from constantly asking for advice to dishing it out.
Dude...its "KAAAAMEEEEEHAAAAAMEEEEEEHAAAAA." Don't ever misquote DBZ again![]()
Hah ah ok I got you. You're powering up and haven't fired it yet. I take back my earlier comment. Dhoulmagus continue on with your threadSolomon said:Didnt misquote half the time Goku doesn't even finish it
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zoBcr8Pz-Yg
1:31
He doesn't even finish it until the 2nd going
heh
I'm not attacking you. I'm just saying "how it is". There's a difference....skinnyguy said:If you find the need to constantly attack me over the internet, then you're the one with issues. You're clearly insecure with yourself if you find the need to pick on people who have different views than you.
You're not a real DJ. Real DJ's would never even find out about this forum cause they don't live on the internet.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.