"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think I am slowly starting to come out of this....

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But the same problems are still there. I watched this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-HBB9CL2TK0&feature=related, and was both inspired and reminded of how much I need to do in life. Somewhat painfully. I have sat around and done nothing, other than some school, cause things did not pan out as I had hoped, and work. Working more than usual. Another year is coming to an end, and I am no where near where I would ideally like to be, and that's either my own unrealistic expectations, or the proper goal setting. Life is the same,day in and day out, to where it feels like I have forgotten out how to enjoy life. I am going to try really hard the next few months to snap out of this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its Elstud!!!!!!
 
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daygameguy said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo6jUXEpECI&feature=related

^^Be happy. Its the most seductive attractive quality to both men & women.
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That was brilliant man. Watching those clips was really eye opening...kind of hit on something I've been feeling for a bit but never knew how to truly internalize. Seeing him speak put some huge amounts perspective into place for me...thanks for posting
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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