"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I think I am slowly starting to come out of this....

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But the same problems are still there. I watched this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-HBB9CL2TK0&feature=related, and was both inspired and reminded of how much I need to do in life. Somewhat painfully. I have sat around and done nothing, other than some school, cause things did not pan out as I had hoped, and work. Working more than usual. Another year is coming to an end, and I am no where near where I would ideally like to be, and that's either my own unrealistic expectations, or the proper goal setting. Life is the same,day in and day out, to where it feels like I have forgotten out how to enjoy life. I am going to try really hard the next few months to snap out of this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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daygameguy said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo6jUXEpECI&feature=related

^^Be happy. Its the most seductive attractive quality to both men & women.
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That was brilliant man. Watching those clips was really eye opening...kind of hit on something I've been feeling for a bit but never knew how to truly internalize. Seeing him speak put some huge amounts perspective into place for me...thanks for posting
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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