"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think I am slowly starting to come out of this....

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But the same problems are still there. I watched this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-HBB9CL2TK0&feature=related, and was both inspired and reminded of how much I need to do in life. Somewhat painfully. I have sat around and done nothing, other than some school, cause things did not pan out as I had hoped, and work. Working more than usual. Another year is coming to an end, and I am no where near where I would ideally like to be, and that's either my own unrealistic expectations, or the proper goal setting. Life is the same,day in and day out, to where it feels like I have forgotten out how to enjoy life. I am going to try really hard the next few months to snap out of this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Its Elstud!!!!!!
 
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daygameguy said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo6jUXEpECI&feature=related

^^Be happy. Its the most seductive attractive quality to both men & women.
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That was brilliant man. Watching those clips was really eye opening...kind of hit on something I've been feeling for a bit but never knew how to truly internalize. Seeing him speak put some huge amounts perspective into place for me...thanks for posting
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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