daygameguy
Master Don Juan
I just came back after an ice-cream date with a girl. She is an HB 8 overall and a freshman college student. Unlike other usual college girls, she is amazingly down to earth, smart, funny, playful, and real pretty at the same time.
I am surprised I found a girl like that. Anyway, no one-itis, but I have found the type of girl I would like to have as a long term partner, and good for me, there are a lot of girls of each definable type in this world. So I am not desperate to run after her.
Anyway, here are some comfort building tips from my dating experiences so far:
When you are on a date/in a comfort building situation, always:
1. Try to focus on making the date as enjoyable, fun and playful as possible. The more she feels that "this was a great date!", the more likely she is to see you again. DO NOT FOCUS ON GETTING SOMETHING (sex or whatever)
2. Try to not be needy. You have to be your true self, you can or actually HAVE to show your interest in the girl, and you also have to Kino a lot, BUT DO NOT BE NEEDY.. or AFC BY SAYING STUFF THAT SOUNDS SUPPLICATING/WUSSY LIKE.
3. If possible, find common interests, so that you can build up a second date, preferably before the end of that date itself.
Additional fun things about my date:
I met a few people as we were strolling around, firstly, a guy I know showed up and was taking my advice on something (DHV), secondly, a hot girl I know showed up and started talking to me, as I introduced her to my girl, I could see some pre-selection switches getting turned on in both the girls lol.
The hard truth:
She is really ambitious, studying with full scholarship to be a doctor, and tells me she has never been the dating type.. more like a tom boy, but a pretty tom boy nonetheless. lol Well, her life and career path is pretty important for her, and she is just beginning to step into the big world after school. I guess I'll have to move on.. it sucks to be a grad student. I need to meet some girls of my age (22-23 yr olds).
I am surprised I found a girl like that. Anyway, no one-itis, but I have found the type of girl I would like to have as a long term partner, and good for me, there are a lot of girls of each definable type in this world. So I am not desperate to run after her.
Anyway, here are some comfort building tips from my dating experiences so far:
When you are on a date/in a comfort building situation, always:
1. Try to focus on making the date as enjoyable, fun and playful as possible. The more she feels that "this was a great date!", the more likely she is to see you again. DO NOT FOCUS ON GETTING SOMETHING (sex or whatever)
2. Try to not be needy. You have to be your true self, you can or actually HAVE to show your interest in the girl, and you also have to Kino a lot, BUT DO NOT BE NEEDY.. or AFC BY SAYING STUFF THAT SOUNDS SUPPLICATING/WUSSY LIKE.
3. If possible, find common interests, so that you can build up a second date, preferably before the end of that date itself.
Additional fun things about my date:
I met a few people as we were strolling around, firstly, a guy I know showed up and was taking my advice on something (DHV), secondly, a hot girl I know showed up and started talking to me, as I introduced her to my girl, I could see some pre-selection switches getting turned on in both the girls lol.
The hard truth:
She is really ambitious, studying with full scholarship to be a doctor, and tells me she has never been the dating type.. more like a tom boy, but a pretty tom boy nonetheless. lol Well, her life and career path is pretty important for her, and she is just beginning to step into the big world after school. I guess I'll have to move on.. it sucks to be a grad student. I need to meet some girls of my age (22-23 yr olds).
