When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you are talking about ST8UP, lol, I agree!!! That is my POINT.Bvbidd said:Iqqi in that thread I see a fat drunk man with a bunch of cheap wh0res. What the hell? Is this what you guys are aspiring to be?
Are you gay, why you judging dudes?iqqi said:Take a look at this thread, in which one of the guys that everyone looks up to in this forum, has posted pics of himself finally.
In my opinion, you guys are about the same weight proportion, you MIGHT be a little bigger, I can't tell. But you have a REALLY cute face! I feel like I always offend someone on here when I say what I really think about pics they post, but they posted them for reactions so...
After you see what this cat looks like, go read his posts. If this guy can pull chicks, you can. He has confidence = he gets chicks!
Lol, I just pictured myself as a fat guy posting "But you have a really cute fathe! Girlfriend!"Bunk 040 said:Are you gay, why you judging dudes?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You know exactly what I mean.iqqi said:?
You keep saying weird sh!t. Stop trolling. Say something useful to the OP.
(OP= orignal poster, newbies).
BTW, I am a size 0, if that is what you meant, KS.:moon:
Mmmm... Doh-kay! :crazy:KarmaSutra said:You know exactly what I mean.
I'm not going to out you, that's for someone in a MODerately higher position than I.
Make no mistake though, WE'RE ON TO YOU.