"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I Suk with women, not in a good way either
- Thread starter StevenR
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
If you are talking about ST8UP, lol, I agree!!! That is my POINT.Bvbidd said:
If HE can do it, StevenR here can do it! StevenR is actually cute! And very intelligent andd talented too.
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iqqi
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Lol, I just pictured myself as a fat guy posting "But you have a really cute fathe! Girlfriend!"Bunk 040 said:
On some other sh!t. DON'T EVER USE THE WORD GIRLFRIEND IN THE WAY WOMEN DO. EVER. That is some gay sh!t.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You know exactly what I mean.iqqi said:?
You keep saying weird sh!t. Stop trolling. Say something useful to the OP.
(OP= orignal poster, newbies).
BTW, I am a size 0, if that is what you meant, KS.:moon:
I'm not going to out you, that's for someone in a MODerately higher position than I.
Make no mistake though, WE'RE ON TO YOU.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Mmmm... Doh-kay! :crazy:KarmaSutra said: