She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If you are talking about ST8UP, lol, I agree!!! That is my POINT.Bvbidd said:Iqqi in that thread I see a fat drunk man with a bunch of cheap wh0res. What the hell? Is this what you guys are aspiring to be?
Are you gay, why you judging dudes?iqqi said:Take a look at this thread, in which one of the guys that everyone looks up to in this forum, has posted pics of himself finally.
In my opinion, you guys are about the same weight proportion, you MIGHT be a little bigger, I can't tell. But you have a REALLY cute face! I feel like I always offend someone on here when I say what I really think about pics they post, but they posted them for reactions so...
After you see what this cat looks like, go read his posts. If this guy can pull chicks, you can. He has confidence = he gets chicks!
Lol, I just pictured myself as a fat guy posting "But you have a really cute fathe! Girlfriend!"Bunk 040 said:Are you gay, why you judging dudes?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You know exactly what I mean.iqqi said:?
You keep saying weird sh!t. Stop trolling. Say something useful to the OP.
(OP= orignal poster, newbies).
BTW, I am a size 0, if that is what you meant, KS.:moon:
Mmmm... Doh-kay! :crazy:KarmaSutra said:You know exactly what I mean.
I'm not going to out you, that's for someone in a MODerately higher position than I.
Make no mistake though, WE'RE ON TO YOU.