Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If you are talking about ST8UP, lol, I agree!!! That is my POINT.Bvbidd said:Iqqi in that thread I see a fat drunk man with a bunch of cheap wh0res. What the hell? Is this what you guys are aspiring to be?
Are you gay, why you judging dudes?iqqi said:Take a look at this thread, in which one of the guys that everyone looks up to in this forum, has posted pics of himself finally.
In my opinion, you guys are about the same weight proportion, you MIGHT be a little bigger, I can't tell. But you have a REALLY cute face! I feel like I always offend someone on here when I say what I really think about pics they post, but they posted them for reactions so...
After you see what this cat looks like, go read his posts. If this guy can pull chicks, you can. He has confidence = he gets chicks!
Lol, I just pictured myself as a fat guy posting "But you have a really cute fathe! Girlfriend!"Bunk 040 said:Are you gay, why you judging dudes?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You know exactly what I mean.iqqi said:?
You keep saying weird sh!t. Stop trolling. Say something useful to the OP.
(OP= orignal poster, newbies).
BTW, I am a size 0, if that is what you meant, KS.:moon:
Mmmm... Doh-kay! :crazy:KarmaSutra said:You know exactly what I mean.
I'm not going to out you, that's for someone in a MODerately higher position than I.
Make no mistake though, WE'RE ON TO YOU.