"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I sold her a phone...

Solaar pleure

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Hi guys
New guy here and really clueless about women. I will eventually get to reading the material here, but for the time being, I need your input on a situation.
I put an ad online for a phone I was selling and got a buyer. I met her yesterday and a really cute girl showed up, I got a feeling she was kind of interested but I thought the whole situation was too awkward to make a move, so I just sold her the phone and left after some small talk. Today, I am thinking that I should have really asked her out. I have her phone number. Now I am curious about a couple of things. Can I make a move via the number I got through the sale and if so how do I go about it?
Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sazc

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I think so. Shoot her a text and simply say "I enjoyed meeting you, how about meeting me again for coffee at X place on Y day at X time" if she wants to, she will. if she wants to but is busy that that time, she will counter. she may say no but nothing ventured is nothing gained so go for it
 

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Shoot her a message and tell her youd like to meet up sometime and get to know her better. Ask her when she is free. It's a yes or a no bro. Don't have regerets.....make the move.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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