"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I sold her a phone...

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Solaar pleure

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Hi guys
New guy here and really clueless about women. I will eventually get to reading the material here, but for the time being, I need your input on a situation.
I put an ad online for a phone I was selling and got a buyer. I met her yesterday and a really cute girl showed up, I got a feeling she was kind of interested but I thought the whole situation was too awkward to make a move, so I just sold her the phone and left after some small talk. Today, I am thinking that I should have really asked her out. I have her phone number. Now I am curious about a couple of things. Can I make a move via the number I got through the sale and if so how do I go about it?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think so. Shoot her a text and simply say "I enjoyed meeting you, how about meeting me again for coffee at X place on Y day at X time" if she wants to, she will. if she wants to but is busy that that time, she will counter. she may say no but nothing ventured is nothing gained so go for it
 
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Shoot her a message and tell her youd like to meet up sometime and get to know her better. Ask her when she is free. It's a yes or a no bro. Don't have regerets.....make the move.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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