"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I sold her a phone...

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Solaar pleure

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Hi guys
New guy here and really clueless about women. I will eventually get to reading the material here, but for the time being, I need your input on a situation.
I put an ad online for a phone I was selling and got a buyer. I met her yesterday and a really cute girl showed up, I got a feeling she was kind of interested but I thought the whole situation was too awkward to make a move, so I just sold her the phone and left after some small talk. Today, I am thinking that I should have really asked her out. I have her phone number. Now I am curious about a couple of things. Can I make a move via the number I got through the sale and if so how do I go about it?
Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think so. Shoot her a text and simply say "I enjoyed meeting you, how about meeting me again for coffee at X place on Y day at X time" if she wants to, she will. if she wants to but is busy that that time, she will counter. she may say no but nothing ventured is nothing gained so go for it
 
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Shoot her a message and tell her youd like to meet up sometime and get to know her better. Ask her when she is free. It's a yes or a no bro. Don't have regerets.....make the move.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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