"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I should be crushing it!

FortunaFides

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Just venting.

I'm at that stage of the game where all I get is numbers & almost nothing else. Numbers are worthless, anyone can get numbers! When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself, the results I am getting just don't add up and I just don't know why. I should be slaying it these days!

I know it's just a phase, or maybe a dry spell, but I sure hope it ends soon. I feel like Superman, but can't get a chick to follow through and stop flaking to save my life lately.

ROAR!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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FortunaFides said:
Just venting.

I'm at that stage of the game where all I get is numbers & almost nothing else. Numbers are worthless, anyone can get numbers! When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself, the results I am getting just don't add up and I just don't know why. I should be slaying it these days!

I know it's just a phase, or maybe a dry spell, but I sure hope it ends soon. I feel like Superman, but can't get a chick to follow through and stop flaking to save my life lately.

ROAR!
Me too.

Just lower yourself off that pedestal just a little bit. I bet youll be feeling better and then chicks will come.
 

skinnyguy

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you are right about numbers. Forget about women for a while and watch them flock to you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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^^^ if only.

I don't understand the pickup world's preoccupation with "numbers." This ain't Swingers, "getting digits" is so 20th Century.

No wonder the OP is getting flakes. Nobody gives two sh*ts about phone numbers anymore.

When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself
And OP, no offense, but how you view yourself and how the mating market views you are usually very different.

There are no "shoulds" in human behavior. There's only that which is, and that which is not. For you my friend, it's currently not. Your task is to find out why and make corrections. Assuming that women "should" be falling for you will not help you.
 

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Totally feel you man. I finally got a date from a number but she ended up bringing another dude to the date lol. What can you do though? Just need to keep on improving your skills.
 
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