"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I should be crushing it!

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FortunaFides

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Just venting.

I'm at that stage of the game where all I get is numbers & almost nothing else. Numbers are worthless, anyone can get numbers! When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself, the results I am getting just don't add up and I just don't know why. I should be slaying it these days!

I know it's just a phase, or maybe a dry spell, but I sure hope it ends soon. I feel like Superman, but can't get a chick to follow through and stop flaking to save my life lately.

ROAR!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FortunaFides said:
Just venting.

I'm at that stage of the game where all I get is numbers & almost nothing else. Numbers are worthless, anyone can get numbers! When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself, the results I am getting just don't add up and I just don't know why. I should be slaying it these days!

I know it's just a phase, or maybe a dry spell, but I sure hope it ends soon. I feel like Superman, but can't get a chick to follow through and stop flaking to save my life lately.

ROAR!
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Me too.

Just lower yourself off that pedestal just a little bit. I bet youll be feeling better and then chicks will come.
 
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skinnyguy

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you are right about numbers. Forget about women for a while and watch them flock to you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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^^^ if only.

I don't understand the pickup world's preoccupation with "numbers." This ain't Swingers, "getting digits" is so 20th Century.

No wonder the OP is getting flakes. Nobody gives two sh*ts about phone numbers anymore.

When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself
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And OP, no offense, but how you view yourself and how the mating market views you are usually very different.

There are no "shoulds" in human behavior. There's only that which is, and that which is not. For you my friend, it's currently not. Your task is to find out why and make corrections. Assuming that women "should" be falling for you will not help you.
 
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Totally feel you man. I finally got a date from a number but she ended up bringing another dude to the date lol. What can you do though? Just need to keep on improving your skills.
 
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