"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I should be crushing it!

FortunaFides

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Just venting.

I'm at that stage of the game where all I get is numbers & almost nothing else. Numbers are worthless, anyone can get numbers! When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself, the results I am getting just don't add up and I just don't know why. I should be slaying it these days!

I know it's just a phase, or maybe a dry spell, but I sure hope it ends soon. I feel like Superman, but can't get a chick to follow through and stop flaking to save my life lately.

ROAR!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FortunaFides said:
Just venting.

I'm at that stage of the game where all I get is numbers & almost nothing else. Numbers are worthless, anyone can get numbers! When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself, the results I am getting just don't add up and I just don't know why. I should be slaying it these days!

I know it's just a phase, or maybe a dry spell, but I sure hope it ends soon. I feel like Superman, but can't get a chick to follow through and stop flaking to save my life lately.

ROAR!
Me too.

Just lower yourself off that pedestal just a little bit. I bet youll be feeling better and then chicks will come.
 

skinnyguy

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you are right about numbers. Forget about women for a while and watch them flock to you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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^^^ if only.

I don't understand the pickup world's preoccupation with "numbers." This ain't Swingers, "getting digits" is so 20th Century.

No wonder the OP is getting flakes. Nobody gives two sh*ts about phone numbers anymore.

When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself
And OP, no offense, but how you view yourself and how the mating market views you are usually very different.

There are no "shoulds" in human behavior. There's only that which is, and that which is not. For you my friend, it's currently not. Your task is to find out why and make corrections. Assuming that women "should" be falling for you will not help you.
 

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Totally feel you man. I finally got a date from a number but she ended up bringing another dude to the date lol. What can you do though? Just need to keep on improving your skills.
 
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