"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I should be crushing it!

FortunaFides

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Just venting.

I'm at that stage of the game where all I get is numbers & almost nothing else. Numbers are worthless, anyone can get numbers! When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself, the results I am getting just don't add up and I just don't know why. I should be slaying it these days!

I know it's just a phase, or maybe a dry spell, but I sure hope it ends soon. I feel like Superman, but can't get a chick to follow through and stop flaking to save my life lately.

ROAR!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FortunaFides said:
Just venting.

I'm at that stage of the game where all I get is numbers & almost nothing else. Numbers are worthless, anyone can get numbers! When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself, the results I am getting just don't add up and I just don't know why. I should be slaying it these days!

I know it's just a phase, or maybe a dry spell, but I sure hope it ends soon. I feel like Superman, but can't get a chick to follow through and stop flaking to save my life lately.

ROAR!
Me too.

Just lower yourself off that pedestal just a little bit. I bet youll be feeling better and then chicks will come.
 

skinnyguy

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you are right about numbers. Forget about women for a while and watch them flock to you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zarky

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^^^ if only.

I don't understand the pickup world's preoccupation with "numbers." This ain't Swingers, "getting digits" is so 20th Century.

No wonder the OP is getting flakes. Nobody gives two sh*ts about phone numbers anymore.

When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself
And OP, no offense, but how you view yourself and how the mating market views you are usually very different.

There are no "shoulds" in human behavior. There's only that which is, and that which is not. For you my friend, it's currently not. Your task is to find out why and make corrections. Assuming that women "should" be falling for you will not help you.
 

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Totally feel you man. I finally got a date from a number but she ended up bringing another dude to the date lol. What can you do though? Just need to keep on improving your skills.
 
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