"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I should be crushing it!

FortunaFides

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Just venting.

I'm at that stage of the game where all I get is numbers & almost nothing else. Numbers are worthless, anyone can get numbers! When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself, the results I am getting just don't add up and I just don't know why. I should be slaying it these days!

I know it's just a phase, or maybe a dry spell, but I sure hope it ends soon. I feel like Superman, but can't get a chick to follow through and stop flaking to save my life lately.

ROAR!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FortunaFides said:
Just venting.

I'm at that stage of the game where all I get is numbers & almost nothing else. Numbers are worthless, anyone can get numbers! When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself, the results I am getting just don't add up and I just don't know why. I should be slaying it these days!

I know it's just a phase, or maybe a dry spell, but I sure hope it ends soon. I feel like Superman, but can't get a chick to follow through and stop flaking to save my life lately.

ROAR!
Me too.

Just lower yourself off that pedestal just a little bit. I bet youll be feeling better and then chicks will come.
 

skinnyguy

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you are right about numbers. Forget about women for a while and watch them flock to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zarky

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^^^ if only.

I don't understand the pickup world's preoccupation with "numbers." This ain't Swingers, "getting digits" is so 20th Century.

No wonder the OP is getting flakes. Nobody gives two sh*ts about phone numbers anymore.

When I add up how I feel, how I look, my mentality, & all the high quality **** I have going for myself
And OP, no offense, but how you view yourself and how the mating market views you are usually very different.

There are no "shoulds" in human behavior. There's only that which is, and that which is not. For you my friend, it's currently not. Your task is to find out why and make corrections. Assuming that women "should" be falling for you will not help you.
 

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Totally feel you man. I finally got a date from a number but she ended up bringing another dude to the date lol. What can you do though? Just need to keep on improving your skills.
 
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