Alpine
Master Don Juan
I'm tired and weary. After a thousand posts answering stupid teenager angst type questions, I seek refuge here.
But is my search in vain?
But is my search in vain?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I seek the Grail
- Thread starter Alpine
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The "Grail" isn't here on this board either. You won't find it anywhere on this Forum. Not even the DJ Bible.
The "Grail" is out there in the real world. Consider this place a "map" giving directions to the Grail. You have to do the work to get there.
Have you tried the BootCamp?
The "Grail" is out there in the real world. Consider this place a "map" giving directions to the Grail. You have to do the work to get there.
Have you tried the BootCamp?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
No, seriously, I just want somewhere to get away from the silly stuff and have a sensible thread going somewhere.
But thanks for your concern.
But thanks for your concern.
thecraftylefty
Senior Don Juan
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You so sure about that...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16971
thecraftylefty
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16971
thecraftylefty
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
Perhaps we should get reduce the use of the " " in here.
I think it leads to immaturity.
I occasionally look around in the high school forum. It makes me glad not to be doing that anymore.
Was it your birthday recently Alpine? Were you born in '80? Happy birthday.
" in here.I think it leads to immaturity.
I occasionally look around in the high school forum. It makes me glad not to be doing that anymore.
Was it your birthday recently Alpine? Were you born in '80? Happy birthday.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
'80? I wish. I remeber Slade, hell I remember the Beatles!