Alpine
Master Don Juan
I'm tired and weary. After a thousand posts answering stupid teenager angst type questions, I seek refuge here.
But is my search in vain?
But is my search in vain?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I seek the Grail
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The "Grail" isn't here on this board either. You won't find it anywhere on this Forum. Not even the DJ Bible.
The "Grail" is out there in the real world. Consider this place a "map" giving directions to the Grail. You have to do the work to get there.
Have you tried the BootCamp?
The "Grail" is out there in the real world. Consider this place a "map" giving directions to the Grail. You have to do the work to get there.
Have you tried the BootCamp?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
No, seriously, I just want somewhere to get away from the silly stuff and have a sensible thread going somewhere.
But thanks for your concern.
But thanks for your concern.
thecraftylefty
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You so sure about that...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16971
thecraftylefty
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16971
thecraftylefty
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
Perhaps we should get reduce the use of the " " in here.
I think it leads to immaturity.
I occasionally look around in the high school forum. It makes me glad not to be doing that anymore.
Was it your birthday recently Alpine? Were you born in '80? Happy birthday.
" in here.I think it leads to immaturity.
I occasionally look around in the high school forum. It makes me glad not to be doing that anymore.
Was it your birthday recently Alpine? Were you born in '80? Happy birthday.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
'80? I wish. I remeber Slade, hell I remember the Beatles!