Alpine
Master Don Juan
I'm tired and weary. After a thousand posts answering stupid teenager angst type questions, I seek refuge here.
But is my search in vain?
But is my search in vain?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I seek the Grail
- Thread starter Alpine
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The "Grail" isn't here on this board either. You won't find it anywhere on this Forum. Not even the DJ Bible.
The "Grail" is out there in the real world. Consider this place a "map" giving directions to the Grail. You have to do the work to get there.
Have you tried the BootCamp?
The "Grail" is out there in the real world. Consider this place a "map" giving directions to the Grail. You have to do the work to get there.
Have you tried the BootCamp?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
No, seriously, I just want somewhere to get away from the silly stuff and have a sensible thread going somewhere.
But thanks for your concern.
But thanks for your concern.
thecraftylefty
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You so sure about that...
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thecraftylefty
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
Perhaps we should get reduce the use of the " " in here.
I think it leads to immaturity.
I occasionally look around in the high school forum. It makes me glad not to be doing that anymore.
Was it your birthday recently Alpine? Were you born in '80? Happy birthday.
" in here.I think it leads to immaturity.
I occasionally look around in the high school forum. It makes me glad not to be doing that anymore.
Was it your birthday recently Alpine? Were you born in '80? Happy birthday.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
'80? I wish. I remeber Slade, hell I remember the Beatles!