"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I really am sorry for all my nonsense on this site

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Those % and numbers means nothing.

A women you find into top 3% will not be 3% for others.

A women you see as 9 might see herself as a 7 and vice-versa

Imo top 2 quality in getting women and having a high smv is social game and look. And social game is by far the most important. Money is 3rd.
that's fair

Honest to god, when I stay within myself and don't try too hard...almost everybody likes me

i just need to put in a serious effort and be myself when I'm around women in real life. I have nothing to feel reserved about
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think the idea of your perfect women is very narrow, and is restricting your succes.
I can tell you that over the next few years your idea of the perfect women will change.

Try to be more open on what you like, try new stuff.
Being open to new experience and being more socially adaptive can be very attractive.


At 29 id just play the field a few more years, it will make you wiser and teach you what women to avoid.
Trust me if i would have had more experience i would have left my 12y LTR way sooner i did not see the signs.
The game is life. Being a player teaches you the nature of women. Which means you'll understand various indicators in along term relationship better
 

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So if youre really sorry youll stop posting and knock down one of the females whose into you for the next 3-4 weeks. Being in puzzy will adjust your game for the better. Dont worry about wife or gf your not even fvcking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No problem. It´s not like they´re going to stop making armenian girls. Keep it up bro.
 

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I think the idea of your perfect women is very narrow, and is restricting your succes.
I can tell you that over the next few years your idea of the perfect women will change.

Try to be more open on what you like, try new stuff.
Being open to new experience and being more socially adaptive can be very attractive.


At 29 id just play the field a few more years, it will make you wiser and teach you what women to avoid.
Trust me if i would have had more experience i would have left my 12y LTR way sooner i did not see the signs.
Exactly.

Good post lamath.
 

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Exactly.

Good post lamath.
I think my taste is mostly common sense stuff

Everybody wants a 23 to 29 year old cutie with a nice fit body. Nobody wants a chick with kids. We all want somebody who is classy, intelligent, smart, sweet, etc....

my only weird quirk is I really don't like light skin white women. I think they are the demographics that age the worst. I'll date Greek or Italian all day but not pale white
 

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I think my taste is mostly common sense stuff

Everybody wants a 23 to 29 year old cutie with a nice fit body. Nobody wants a chick with kids. We all want somebody who is classy, intelligent, smart, sweet, etc....

my only weird quirk is I really don't like light skin white women. I think they are the demographics that age the worst. I'll date Greek or Italian all day but not pale white
70% of Americans r white...

You should be color blind when it comes to training, women r women regardless of color.

Train urself by not having limitations...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think my taste is mostly common sense stuff

Everybody wants a 23 to 29 year old cutie with a nice fit body. Nobody wants a chick with kids. We all want somebody who is classy, intelligent, smart, sweet, etc....

my only weird quirk is I really don't like light skin white women. I think they are the demographics that age the worst. I'll date Greek or Italian all day but not pale white
I dont care about a kid or two. Sometimes they were sweet women that got did dirty. Plus i think women with kids are less selfish.
 

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70% of Americans r white...

You should be color blind when it comes to training, women r women regardless of color.

Train urself by not having limitations...
a good percentage of those white people are medium to darker skin, which I'm ok with.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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all you guys who act like bars and clubs are super easy, I honestly wonder if you live in same world as I do


i went out for black friday and went to a place that had a good 55 60% women ratio and still I saw zero decent opportunities. Every female was super engrossed in conversation with their friends. The only ones interested in meeting anybody were fat or old


I'm the absolute leanest right now I've ever been. At this place, i was easily one of the 3 or 4 best looking dudes there. Still it was not enough.
 

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all you guys who act like bars and clubs are super easy, I honestly wonder if you live in same world as I do


i went out for black friday and went to a place that had a good 55 60% women ratio and still I saw zero decent opportunities. Every female was super engrossed in conversation with their friends. The only ones interested in meeting anybody were fat or old


I'm the absolute leanest right now I've ever been. At this place, i was easily one of the 3 or 4 best looking dudes there. Still it was not enough.
Even at 10% your lean enough. Fine dudes without game have problems.
 

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all you guys who act like bars and clubs are super easy, I honestly wonder if you live in same world as I do


i went out for black friday and went to a place that had a good 55 60% women ratio and still I saw zero decent opportunities. Every female was super engrossed in conversation with their friends. The only ones interested in meeting anybody were fat or old


I'm the absolute leanest right now I've ever been. At this place, i was easily one of the 3 or 4 best looking dudes there. Still it was not enough.
Forget about numbers, also you cant rank yourself without being bias

I always found bars and club real bad place unless you are there with a group of friend that include some women you are interested in.
 

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The mindset of seeking a GF or Wife and your not even in the game is a complete failure. It's preventing you from getting women in general. Mr Locario has a bunch of videos about game for handsome dudes. Many time they have the hardest time, but you have to own it and carry it. But until your ****ing your like a chicken with all his feathers plucked and your skinny and shivering like an Ethopian. You need to have regular sex with some puzzy.
 

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Social is num 1 imo

Need to be more ez going.
I dont like saying that but i think getting drunk in the right circumstance might help you.
You are too uptight and serious you need to loosen up
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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