I went out tonight and made some small talk and conversation with strangers. Everybody liked me quite a bit
the women who were attractive though were clearly not interested in meeting anybody
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I really am sorry for all my nonsense on this site
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the women who were attractive though were clearly not interested in meeting anybody
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So why don't you season your life by starting up sex with one of the "trash" ladies that already want to have sex with. It takes 3 weeks of steady sex with someone into you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
He wants to use his Chad fantasy as an excuse to raise his appearance to .5% . When with game he can get abundance.