"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I really am sorry for all my nonsense on this site

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Those % and numbers means nothing.

A women you find into top 3% will not be 3% for others.

A women you see as 9 might see herself as a 7 and vice-versa

Imo top 2 quality in getting women and having a high smv is social game and look. And social game is by far the most important. Money is 3rd.
that's fair

Honest to god, when I stay within myself and don't try too hard...almost everybody likes me

i just need to put in a serious effort and be myself when I'm around women in real life. I have nothing to feel reserved about
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think the idea of your perfect women is very narrow, and is restricting your succes.
I can tell you that over the next few years your idea of the perfect women will change.

Try to be more open on what you like, try new stuff.
Being open to new experience and being more socially adaptive can be very attractive.


At 29 id just play the field a few more years, it will make you wiser and teach you what women to avoid.
Trust me if i would have had more experience i would have left my 12y LTR way sooner i did not see the signs.
The game is life. Being a player teaches you the nature of women. Which means you'll understand various indicators in along term relationship better
 

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So if youre really sorry youll stop posting and knock down one of the females whose into you for the next 3-4 weeks. Being in puzzy will adjust your game for the better. Dont worry about wife or gf your not even fvcking.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No problem. It´s not like they´re going to stop making armenian girls. Keep it up bro.
 

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I think the idea of your perfect women is very narrow, and is restricting your succes.
I can tell you that over the next few years your idea of the perfect women will change.

Try to be more open on what you like, try new stuff.
Being open to new experience and being more socially adaptive can be very attractive.


At 29 id just play the field a few more years, it will make you wiser and teach you what women to avoid.
Trust me if i would have had more experience i would have left my 12y LTR way sooner i did not see the signs.
Exactly.

Good post lamath.
 

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Exactly.

Good post lamath.
I think my taste is mostly common sense stuff

Everybody wants a 23 to 29 year old cutie with a nice fit body. Nobody wants a chick with kids. We all want somebody who is classy, intelligent, smart, sweet, etc....

my only weird quirk is I really don't like light skin white women. I think they are the demographics that age the worst. I'll date Greek or Italian all day but not pale white
 

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I think my taste is mostly common sense stuff

Everybody wants a 23 to 29 year old cutie with a nice fit body. Nobody wants a chick with kids. We all want somebody who is classy, intelligent, smart, sweet, etc....

my only weird quirk is I really don't like light skin white women. I think they are the demographics that age the worst. I'll date Greek or Italian all day but not pale white
70% of Americans r white...

You should be color blind when it comes to training, women r women regardless of color.

Train urself by not having limitations...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think my taste is mostly common sense stuff

Everybody wants a 23 to 29 year old cutie with a nice fit body. Nobody wants a chick with kids. We all want somebody who is classy, intelligent, smart, sweet, etc....

my only weird quirk is I really don't like light skin white women. I think they are the demographics that age the worst. I'll date Greek or Italian all day but not pale white
I dont care about a kid or two. Sometimes they were sweet women that got did dirty. Plus i think women with kids are less selfish.
 

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70% of Americans r white...

You should be color blind when it comes to training, women r women regardless of color.

Train urself by not having limitations...
a good percentage of those white people are medium to darker skin, which I'm ok with.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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all you guys who act like bars and clubs are super easy, I honestly wonder if you live in same world as I do


i went out for black friday and went to a place that had a good 55 60% women ratio and still I saw zero decent opportunities. Every female was super engrossed in conversation with their friends. The only ones interested in meeting anybody were fat or old


I'm the absolute leanest right now I've ever been. At this place, i was easily one of the 3 or 4 best looking dudes there. Still it was not enough.
 

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all you guys who act like bars and clubs are super easy, I honestly wonder if you live in same world as I do


i went out for black friday and went to a place that had a good 55 60% women ratio and still I saw zero decent opportunities. Every female was super engrossed in conversation with their friends. The only ones interested in meeting anybody were fat or old


I'm the absolute leanest right now I've ever been. At this place, i was easily one of the 3 or 4 best looking dudes there. Still it was not enough.
Even at 10% your lean enough. Fine dudes without game have problems.
 

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all you guys who act like bars and clubs are super easy, I honestly wonder if you live in same world as I do


i went out for black friday and went to a place that had a good 55 60% women ratio and still I saw zero decent opportunities. Every female was super engrossed in conversation with their friends. The only ones interested in meeting anybody were fat or old


I'm the absolute leanest right now I've ever been. At this place, i was easily one of the 3 or 4 best looking dudes there. Still it was not enough.
Forget about numbers, also you cant rank yourself without being bias

I always found bars and club real bad place unless you are there with a group of friend that include some women you are interested in.
 

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The mindset of seeking a GF or Wife and your not even in the game is a complete failure. It's preventing you from getting women in general. Mr Locario has a bunch of videos about game for handsome dudes. Many time they have the hardest time, but you have to own it and carry it. But until your ****ing your like a chicken with all his feathers plucked and your skinny and shivering like an Ethopian. You need to have regular sex with some puzzy.
 

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Social is num 1 imo

Need to be more ez going.
I dont like saying that but i think getting drunk in the right circumstance might help you.
You are too uptight and serious you need to loosen up
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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