CapedCrusader08
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I blame the world.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I realize what has to happen...
- Thread starter CapedCrusader08
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
steve_erkle
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Shut the fvck up you pvssy. I am sick of your ***** ass whiny bullsh11. Get off the computer for one week and see what happens.CapedCrusader08 said:No,I'm not a troll. I found this site,and became overwhelmed by the knowledge on here. I want(ed) to get better,but I can't find it within me. I am not the person I would like to be,what you call that,I don't know. Identity crisis? Plus,the feeling of being lesser than others,behind,on the bottom,etc. An outcast,loner,however you want to put it.
CapedCrusader08
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oh yeah sure. Easy for you to say. I didn't want it to come to this,but I feel I have to say it. You have no idea what it's like for me,this constant feeling of feeling pushed down,of how behind you are,how everyone else is doing better than you,you're one of those people who has everything together,who is just happy about life,who has all the chicks chasing after them,who has just seemingly been able to do every thing right,who has always been one of the cool guys,yeah,that you? right,gonna go onto college,get the job,make the money,etc.Well,you're the epitome of all I hate in this world.
:crackup: :crackup:
Let this man forever be in a world of what ifs and why nots. You cannot help someone that does not want help.
No one in this community has the ability to help this dude (If he's even for real).
There is only one course of action, a moderator must be contacted and he must be banned from this website. All he is doing is creating negative energy (How many people get pissed off trying to help this guy), and he is just seeking attention. Stop replying to him (Didn't you read the sign? DON'T FEED THE TROLL!).
He is a waste of space.
Let this man forever be in a world of what ifs and why nots. You cannot help someone that does not want help.
No one in this community has the ability to help this dude (If he's even for real).
There is only one course of action, a moderator must be contacted and he must be banned from this website. All he is doing is creating negative energy (How many people get pissed off trying to help this guy), and he is just seeking attention. Stop replying to him (Didn't you read the sign? DON'T FEED THE TROLL!).
He is a waste of space.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
CapedCrusader08
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Yes.I am negative.I am all things negative. I see the world in a very misanthropic,negative way. As the saying goes,don't think just do,think and you shall become,etc. Just not there for me. I am for real. I am just the opposite of what is talked about on here. I am not just seeking attention,although you see it that way. I guess I feel that I deserve all this stuff,cause it has been denied to me for so long.
There were once standards in this world,but they have been all but obliterated in the name do what you feel/whatever feels good,etc.
There were once standards in this world,but they have been all but obliterated in the name do what you feel/whatever feels good,etc.
This forum is for people who want to improve themselves or help others improve themselves. You do neither, so you don't belong here.
Mods, please ban this vagina!
If he ever wants to improve, he can read his old threads, and the plethora of great advice he has been given. Of course, the mods probably dont read this crap anymore anyway.
Edit (cuzIm not wasting more posts): And no, you dont want to, and dont say you do. And yes, you do know how. Dont lie to us. You just want to whine about it. you're in the wrong place. Go check out pityparty.com or something.
Mods, please ban this vagina!
If he ever wants to improve, he can read his old threads, and the plethora of great advice he has been given. Of course, the mods probably dont read this crap anymore anyway.
Edit (cuzIm not wasting more posts): And no, you dont want to, and dont say you do. And yes, you do know how. Dont lie to us. You just want to whine about it. you're in the wrong place. Go check out pityparty.com or something.
CapedCrusader08
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but I want too,I just don't know how. It's a complex. I have a hard time taking and listening to advice. It's either stubborness,or just a disregard for what others tell me cause I don't like listenting to them or something. I get angry easily,something happens,and my pent up rage comes flying out. I'll admit,I am more used to whining instead of doing something about it. But it's only cause I don't know how,or,I feel I don't need the advice of others,and things should go my way.
Igetit!
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You should stop having your parents pay for all your expenses, school, work, clothes, allowance. Go out and get a job and start paying for yourself.CapedCrusader08 said:You have no idea what it's like for me,this constant feeling of feeling pushed down,of how behind you are,how everyone else is doing better than you,you're one of those people who has everything together,who is just happy about life,who has all the chicks chasing after them,who has just seemingly been able to do every thing right,who has always been one of the cool guys,yeah,that you? right,gonna go onto college,get the job,make the money,etc.Well,you're the epitome of all I hate in this world.
I blame your parents for paying for everything you own.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.