CapedCrusader08
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I blame the world.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I realize what has to happen...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
steve_erkle
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Shut the fvck up you pvssy. I am sick of your ***** ass whiny bullsh11. Get off the computer for one week and see what happens.CapedCrusader08 said:No,I'm not a troll. I found this site,and became overwhelmed by the knowledge on here. I want(ed) to get better,but I can't find it within me. I am not the person I would like to be,what you call that,I don't know. Identity crisis? Plus,the feeling of being lesser than others,behind,on the bottom,etc. An outcast,loner,however you want to put it.
CapedCrusader08
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oh yeah sure. Easy for you to say. I didn't want it to come to this,but I feel I have to say it. You have no idea what it's like for me,this constant feeling of feeling pushed down,of how behind you are,how everyone else is doing better than you,you're one of those people who has everything together,who is just happy about life,who has all the chicks chasing after them,who has just seemingly been able to do every thing right,who has always been one of the cool guys,yeah,that you? right,gonna go onto college,get the job,make the money,etc.Well,you're the epitome of all I hate in this world.
:crackup: :crackup:
Let this man forever be in a world of what ifs and why nots. You cannot help someone that does not want help.
No one in this community has the ability to help this dude (If he's even for real).
There is only one course of action, a moderator must be contacted and he must be banned from this website. All he is doing is creating negative energy (How many people get pissed off trying to help this guy), and he is just seeking attention. Stop replying to him (Didn't you read the sign? DON'T FEED THE TROLL!).
He is a waste of space.
Let this man forever be in a world of what ifs and why nots. You cannot help someone that does not want help.
No one in this community has the ability to help this dude (If he's even for real).
There is only one course of action, a moderator must be contacted and he must be banned from this website. All he is doing is creating negative energy (How many people get pissed off trying to help this guy), and he is just seeking attention. Stop replying to him (Didn't you read the sign? DON'T FEED THE TROLL!).
He is a waste of space.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
CapedCrusader08
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Yes.I am negative.I am all things negative. I see the world in a very misanthropic,negative way. As the saying goes,don't think just do,think and you shall become,etc. Just not there for me. I am for real. I am just the opposite of what is talked about on here. I am not just seeking attention,although you see it that way. I guess I feel that I deserve all this stuff,cause it has been denied to me for so long.
There were once standards in this world,but they have been all but obliterated in the name do what you feel/whatever feels good,etc.
There were once standards in this world,but they have been all but obliterated in the name do what you feel/whatever feels good,etc.
This forum is for people who want to improve themselves or help others improve themselves. You do neither, so you don't belong here.
Mods, please ban this vagina!
If he ever wants to improve, he can read his old threads, and the plethora of great advice he has been given. Of course, the mods probably dont read this crap anymore anyway.
Edit (cuzIm not wasting more posts): And no, you dont want to, and dont say you do. And yes, you do know how. Dont lie to us. You just want to whine about it. you're in the wrong place. Go check out pityparty.com or something.
Mods, please ban this vagina!
If he ever wants to improve, he can read his old threads, and the plethora of great advice he has been given. Of course, the mods probably dont read this crap anymore anyway.
Edit (cuzIm not wasting more posts): And no, you dont want to, and dont say you do. And yes, you do know how. Dont lie to us. You just want to whine about it. you're in the wrong place. Go check out pityparty.com or something.
CapedCrusader08
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but I want too,I just don't know how. It's a complex. I have a hard time taking and listening to advice. It's either stubborness,or just a disregard for what others tell me cause I don't like listenting to them or something. I get angry easily,something happens,and my pent up rage comes flying out. I'll admit,I am more used to whining instead of doing something about it. But it's only cause I don't know how,or,I feel I don't need the advice of others,and things should go my way.
Igetit!
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You should stop having your parents pay for all your expenses, school, work, clothes, allowance. Go out and get a job and start paying for yourself.CapedCrusader08 said:You have no idea what it's like for me,this constant feeling of feeling pushed down,of how behind you are,how everyone else is doing better than you,you're one of those people who has everything together,who is just happy about life,who has all the chicks chasing after them,who has just seemingly been able to do every thing right,who has always been one of the cool guys,yeah,that you? right,gonna go onto college,get the job,make the money,etc.Well,you're the epitome of all I hate in this world.
I blame your parents for paying for everything you own.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.