CapedCrusader08
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- Sep 27, 2008
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I blame the world.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Shut the fvck up you pvssy. I am sick of your ***** ass whiny bullsh11. Get off the computer for one week and see what happens.CapedCrusader08 said:No,I'm not a troll. I found this site,and became overwhelmed by the knowledge on here. I want(ed) to get better,but I can't find it within me. I am not the person I would like to be,what you call that,I don't know. Identity crisis? Plus,the feeling of being lesser than others,behind,on the bottom,etc. An outcast,loner,however you want to put it.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You should stop having your parents pay for all your expenses, school, work, clothes, allowance. Go out and get a job and start paying for yourself.CapedCrusader08 said:You have no idea what it's like for me,this constant feeling of feeling pushed down,of how behind you are,how everyone else is doing better than you,you're one of those people who has everything together,who is just happy about life,who has all the chicks chasing after them,who has just seemingly been able to do every thing right,who has always been one of the cool guys,yeah,that you? right,gonna go onto college,get the job,make the money,etc.Well,you're the epitome of all I hate in this world.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.