“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i put this to you: you are not as good looking as you think

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rite, i'm sick of hearing guys say, i'm good looking this, people call me good-looking that

based on pure speculation, i reckon 50% of the guys hear are sub-par otherwise they wouldn't be here

i want to see pictures!

so all those who think they've got it

please post pictures, or links here.


me:

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQN&key=ENL

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQS&key=WUP

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=ERSQRLN&key=BBE



please no flaming about hotornot, don't know how to post pictures on these forums


my scale:
10 - very HOT
9 - hot
8 - very attractive
7 - pretty/attractive
6 - average/meh
<5 ugly, fugly, butgly
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hot or Not is useless, the girls are rating the guys more on the personality that they are portraying in the photos, not on their actual physical appearance.
The same guy can put on a photo of himself dressed in more conservative or bleak types of clothing and be scored a 4, then put on another photo that shows his muscles without a shirt on and be scored an 8.
The girls are rating the personality portrayed rather than his actual looks.:cool:
 

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lordson said:
based on pure speculation, i reckon 50% of the guys hear [sic] are sub-par
I agree entirely.

Furthermore, I propose that exactly 50% of guys here are above par.
 

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i think im like a 6.5...
 
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oh, and I give myself a 6.75-7.25 depending on the day.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hotornot is the worst measure of looks. People don't always rate solely on good looks, guys will rate other guys 1s just for the hell of it, tons of people just keep hitting one score over and over to browse thru the pictures....etc etc. It's bs.
 

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I'm even better looking than I think I am.





Most people in this thread seem quite hot, in my not gay opinion.
 
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What's the point of this? To slash egos? Who cares if someone wants to believe they're better looking than they are. It's their right to do so. I mean what's the alternative? "gee I'm not good enough guess I don't get to feel attractive "
 

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lordson said:
rite, i'm sick of hearing guys say, i'm good looking this, people call me good-looking that

based on pure speculation, i reckon 50% of the guys hear are sub-par otherwise they wouldn't be here

i want to see pictures!

so all those who think they've got it

please post pictures, or links here.


me:

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQN&key=ENL

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQS&key=WUP

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=ERSQRLN&key=BBE



please no flaming about hotornot, don't know how to post pictures on these forums


my scale:
10 - very HOT
9 - hot
8 - very attractive
7 - pretty/attractive
6 - average/meh
<5 ugly, fugly, butgly
You.... my good sir, are a fool.

There are tons of reasons why guys would be on this site, if you're here only to obsess over women you're here for the wrong reasons! So stop with all your gay little predictions and crap. "I bet 50% of you blah blah blah..." Tell me what mathematical process you used to get to that conclusion :rolleyes: . Fyi, I fluctuate between 8.5-9.0 on that site.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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PlasticSurgeon said:
Click on my myspace for my pictures...

I'm hands down, the best looking guy of my race. I don't even look Indian.
I'm glad you hold your people to such high standards, b/c basically you said:

"compared to a white guy I aint sh*t but I'm hotter than those Indians, and that's only because I don't look Indian."

Give yourself a pat on the back buddy. :)
 

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Good job diversifying, I'm the same way, but keep in mind if you're excluding your own, you're not diversifying.
Btw, where in LI are you? I'm in Stony Brook U.
 

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Nighthawk said:
I'm even better looking than I think I am.
Hey, you know that PM I sent you asking how to be "sexy"? Well I think I get it now. I was at the bookstore this morning looking at some magazines, and Scarlett Johannson is on the cover of some magazine as "sexiest woman alive." I look at her, then at some other fine chick on another cover, like FHM or something. And you know, Scarlett doesn't have the best body, she's a little "thick" but the way she poses just oozes with sexuality. Even though the other chick has a nicer body, more toned, Scarlett turns me on more, because her stance just plain screams SEX!

So, I get it now...sexy isn't flexing or being big and toned, it's the way you carry yourself...and being confident enough to have a bold sense of style, like you do.

And you know, from your pictures, I think I'm similar to you in that I'm a pretty thin guy. What I think attracts girls is my face/jaw, eyes, and sense of style (though my style needs work). You're not big and muscular, yet you say girls think you're sexy. You do have very "manly" facial features though...and the way you stand is just "sexy." I totally get your drift now...

I won't post my pictures because I don't want people knowing I visit this forum (as I've posted about my self-esteem/confidence issues a lot). I don't really care for ratings since hot girls come onto on me daily, I have all the proof I need. Besides, this guy is right...we all have the right to believe we're super good-looking...in fact, my low self-esteem as I've realized is my biggest obstacle.

Yankee.Hotel.Foxtrot said:
What's the point of this? To slash egos? Who cares if someone wants to believe they're better looking than they are. It's their right to do so. I mean what's the alternative? "gee I'm not good enough guess I don't get to feel attractive "
 
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