"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

i put this to you: you are not as good looking as you think

lordson

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 7, 2005
Messages
470
Reaction score
4
Location
Australia
rite, i'm sick of hearing guys say, i'm good looking this, people call me good-looking that

based on pure speculation, i reckon 50% of the guys hear are sub-par otherwise they wouldn't be here

i want to see pictures!

so all those who think they've got it

please post pictures, or links here.


me:

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQN&key=ENL

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQS&key=WUP

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=ERSQRLN&key=BBE



please no flaming about hotornot, don't know how to post pictures on these forums


my scale:
10 - very HOT
9 - hot
8 - very attractive
7 - pretty/attractive
6 - average/meh
<5 ugly, fugly, butgly
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

piranha45

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 17, 2005
Messages
973
Reaction score
38

KoalaKing

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 5, 2006
Messages
427
Reaction score
3
Hot or Not is useless, the girls are rating the guys more on the personality that they are portraying in the photos, not on their actual physical appearance.
The same guy can put on a photo of himself dressed in more conservative or bleak types of clothing and be scored a 4, then put on another photo that shows his muscles without a shirt on and be scored an 8.
The girls are rating the personality portrayed rather than his actual looks.:cool:
 

manuva

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 1, 2005
Messages
527
Reaction score
9
Location
Australia
lordson said:
based on pure speculation, i reckon 50% of the guys hear [sic] are sub-par
I agree entirely.

Furthermore, I propose that exactly 50% of guys here are above par.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

JLW

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 19, 2005
Messages
375
Reaction score
7

DonDan

Banned
Joined
Oct 30, 2006
Messages
227
Reaction score
0
i think im like a 6.5...
 
Last edited:

JLW

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 19, 2005
Messages
375
Reaction score
7
oh, and I give myself a 6.75-7.25 depending on the day.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Scrumtulescence

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 23, 2004
Messages
947
Reaction score
3
Age
45
Location
Inyurvij Eina
Hotornot is the worst measure of looks. People don't always rate solely on good looks, guys will rate other guys 1s just for the hell of it, tons of people just keep hitting one score over and over to browse thru the pictures....etc etc. It's bs.
 

Nighthawk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
2,078
Reaction score
29
I'm even better looking than I think I am.





Most people in this thread seem quite hot, in my not gay opinion.
 
Joined
Oct 16, 2006
Messages
33
Reaction score
0
Location
Poughkeepsie
What's the point of this? To slash egos? Who cares if someone wants to believe they're better looking than they are. It's their right to do so. I mean what's the alternative? "gee I'm not good enough guess I don't get to feel attractive "
 

DJ_in_making

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2004
Messages
924
Reaction score
2
Age
38
Location
Big Ole apple
lordson said:
rite, i'm sick of hearing guys say, i'm good looking this, people call me good-looking that

based on pure speculation, i reckon 50% of the guys hear are sub-par otherwise they wouldn't be here

i want to see pictures!

so all those who think they've got it

please post pictures, or links here.


me:

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQN&key=ENL

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQS&key=WUP

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=ERSQRLN&key=BBE



please no flaming about hotornot, don't know how to post pictures on these forums


my scale:
10 - very HOT
9 - hot
8 - very attractive
7 - pretty/attractive
6 - average/meh
<5 ugly, fugly, butgly
You.... my good sir, are a fool.

There are tons of reasons why guys would be on this site, if you're here only to obsess over women you're here for the wrong reasons! So stop with all your gay little predictions and crap. "I bet 50% of you blah blah blah..." Tell me what mathematical process you used to get to that conclusion :rolleyes: . Fyi, I fluctuate between 8.5-9.0 on that site.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

DJ_in_making

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2004
Messages
924
Reaction score
2
Age
38
Location
Big Ole apple
PlasticSurgeon said:
Click on my myspace for my pictures...

I'm hands down, the best looking guy of my race. I don't even look Indian.
I'm glad you hold your people to such high standards, b/c basically you said:

"compared to a white guy I aint sh*t but I'm hotter than those Indians, and that's only because I don't look Indian."

Give yourself a pat on the back buddy. :)
 

DJ_in_making

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2004
Messages
924
Reaction score
2
Age
38
Location
Big Ole apple
Good job diversifying, I'm the same way, but keep in mind if you're excluding your own, you're not diversifying.
Btw, where in LI are you? I'm in Stony Brook U.
 

~attrACTION~

Banned
Joined
Oct 1, 2006
Messages
714
Reaction score
7
Location
Heaven
Nighthawk said:
I'm even better looking than I think I am.
Hey, you know that PM I sent you asking how to be "sexy"? Well I think I get it now. I was at the bookstore this morning looking at some magazines, and Scarlett Johannson is on the cover of some magazine as "sexiest woman alive." I look at her, then at some other fine chick on another cover, like FHM or something. And you know, Scarlett doesn't have the best body, she's a little "thick" but the way she poses just oozes with sexuality. Even though the other chick has a nicer body, more toned, Scarlett turns me on more, because her stance just plain screams SEX!

So, I get it now...sexy isn't flexing or being big and toned, it's the way you carry yourself...and being confident enough to have a bold sense of style, like you do.

And you know, from your pictures, I think I'm similar to you in that I'm a pretty thin guy. What I think attracts girls is my face/jaw, eyes, and sense of style (though my style needs work). You're not big and muscular, yet you say girls think you're sexy. You do have very "manly" facial features though...and the way you stand is just "sexy." I totally get your drift now...

I won't post my pictures because I don't want people knowing I visit this forum (as I've posted about my self-esteem/confidence issues a lot). I don't really care for ratings since hot girls come onto on me daily, I have all the proof I need. Besides, this guy is right...we all have the right to believe we're super good-looking...in fact, my low self-esteem as I've realized is my biggest obstacle.

Yankee.Hotel.Foxtrot said:
What's the point of this? To slash egos? Who cares if someone wants to believe they're better looking than they are. It's their right to do so. I mean what's the alternative? "gee I'm not good enough guess I don't get to feel attractive "
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Top