...I told them that with a first marriage divorce rate of 50%, coupled with women getting granted custody 92% of the time, this resulted in 46% or basically 1 out of every 2 men paying their "soulmate" "child support" to steal his kids and b*ng somebody else. I then compared this to the advice given about commodities trading (exactly 50% failure, 50% success by nature). It is always advised that, unless you can afford to lose all your trading money, not to get involved. And even then, KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING. I then went on to tell them that using that as a guide why the h*ll would a sane person advise any young man to marry? Of course then I clarified, UNLESS HE WAS TAUGHT/ OR LEARNED TO BE A REAL MAN (Don Juan). Needless to say it was funny to watch the reactions of these women. They "towed the line" in front of their friends, but you could see the attraction that was generated with some of them from a man being a man. THANK YOU SOSUAVE DJs FOR HELPING ME EXPEL MY INNER AFC WUSS...:box:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I p*ssed off some women today...
- Thread starter brertiger
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
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Good job. Mind if I steal your statistics?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
And what were you planning on achieving by telling them this?brertiger said:...I told them that with a first marriage divorce rate of 50%, coupled with women getting granted custody 92% of the time, this resulted in 46% or basically 1 out of every 2 men paying their "soulmate" "child support" to steal his kids and b*ng somebody else. I then compared this to the advice given about commodities trading (exactly 50% failure, 50% success by nature). It is always advised that, unless you can afford to lose all your trading money, not to get involved. And even then, KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING. I then went on to tell them that using that as a guide why the h*ll would a sane person advise any young man to marry? Of course then I clarified, UNLESS HE WAS TAUGHT/ OR LEARNED TO BE A REAL MAN (Don Juan). Needless to say it was funny to watch the reactions of these women. They "towed the line" in front of their friends, but you could see the attraction that was generated with some of them from a man being a man. THANK YOU SOSUAVE DJs FOR HELPING ME EXPEL MY INNER AFC WUSS...:box:
What was my objective?
Well Francisco, they were "working" on this young AFC telling him how he should "commit" to their little co-worker. He reminds me a lot of myself when I was younger. I just wanted to do the right thing and try to thwart these overweight, single moms from spreading their misery around...I told this kid to establish his career and date lots of women. So he would have experience and an ability to compare them, et al. I told him right in front of these ol' biddies. And when they left, I told him the rest.............:trouble:
Well Francisco, they were "working" on this young AFC telling him how he should "commit" to their little co-worker. He reminds me a lot of myself when I was younger. I just wanted to do the right thing and try to thwart these overweight, single moms from spreading their misery around...I told this kid to establish his career and date lots of women. So he would have experience and an ability to compare them, et al. I told him right in front of these ol' biddies. And when they left, I told him the rest.............:trouble:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I see. I wouldn't have showed my hand though. Now these women know that they aren't dealing with a "typical nice guy" (if he heeds your lessons). All I'm saying is that he will probably be given a bad label (along with you) because of your conversation.brertiger said:Well Francisco, they were "working" on this young AFC telling him how he should "commit" to their little co-worker. He reminds me a lot of myself when I was younger. I just wanted to do the right thing and try to thwart these overweight, single moms from spreading their misery around...I told this kid to establish his career and date lots of women. So he would have experience and an ability to compare them, et al. I told him right in front of these ol' biddies. And when they left, I told him the rest.............:trouble:
Don't get me wrong, I'm the first to say why bother with what other people think about you if you are happy with yourself, it's just that not every guy has the fortitude of being not liked by the masses.