"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I p*ssed off some women today...

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...I told them that with a first marriage divorce rate of 50%, coupled with women getting granted custody 92% of the time, this resulted in 46% or basically 1 out of every 2 men paying their "soulmate" "child support" to steal his kids and b*ng somebody else. I then compared this to the advice given about commodities trading (exactly 50% failure, 50% success by nature). It is always advised that, unless you can afford to lose all your trading money, not to get involved. And even then, KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING. I then went on to tell them that using that as a guide why the h*ll would a sane person advise any young man to marry? Of course then I clarified, UNLESS HE WAS TAUGHT/ OR LEARNED TO BE A REAL MAN (Don Juan). Needless to say it was funny to watch the reactions of these women. They "towed the line" in front of their friends, but you could see the attraction that was generated with some of them from a man being a man. THANK YOU SOSUAVE DJs FOR HELPING ME EXPEL MY INNER AFC WUSS...:box:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think SoSuave just unleashed an animal. Awesome.
 

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brertiger said:
...I told them that with a first marriage divorce rate of 50%, coupled with women getting granted custody 92% of the time, this resulted in 46% or basically 1 out of every 2 men paying their "soulmate" "child support" to steal his kids and b*ng somebody else. I then compared this to the advice given about commodities trading (exactly 50% failure, 50% success by nature). It is always advised that, unless you can afford to lose all your trading money, not to get involved. And even then, KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING. I then went on to tell them that using that as a guide why the h*ll would a sane person advise any young man to marry? Of course then I clarified, UNLESS HE WAS TAUGHT/ OR LEARNED TO BE A REAL MAN (Don Juan). Needless to say it was funny to watch the reactions of these women. They "towed the line" in front of their friends, but you could see the attraction that was generated with some of them from a man being a man. THANK YOU SOSUAVE DJs FOR HELPING ME EXPEL MY INNER AFC WUSS...:box:
And what were you planning on achieving by telling them this?
 

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What was my objective?

Well Francisco, they were "working" on this young AFC telling him how he should "commit" to their little co-worker. He reminds me a lot of myself when I was younger. I just wanted to do the right thing and try to thwart these overweight, single moms from spreading their misery around...I told this kid to establish his career and date lots of women. So he would have experience and an ability to compare them, et al. I told him right in front of these ol' biddies. And when they left, I told him the rest.............:trouble:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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brertiger said:
Well Francisco, they were "working" on this young AFC telling him how he should "commit" to their little co-worker. He reminds me a lot of myself when I was younger. I just wanted to do the right thing and try to thwart these overweight, single moms from spreading their misery around...I told this kid to establish his career and date lots of women. So he would have experience and an ability to compare them, et al. I told him right in front of these ol' biddies. And when they left, I told him the rest.............:trouble:
I see. I wouldn't have showed my hand though. Now these women know that they aren't dealing with a "typical nice guy" (if he heeds your lessons). All I'm saying is that he will probably be given a bad label (along with you) because of your conversation.

Don't get me wrong, I'm the first to say why bother with what other people think about you if you are happy with yourself, it's just that not every guy has the fortitude of being not liked by the masses.
 
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