...I told them that with a first marriage divorce rate of 50%, coupled with women getting granted custody 92% of the time, this resulted in 46% or basically 1 out of every 2 men paying their "soulmate" "child support" to steal his kids and b*ng somebody else. I then compared this to the advice given about commodities trading (exactly 50% failure, 50% success by nature). It is always advised that, unless you can afford to lose all your trading money, not to get involved. And even then, KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING. I then went on to tell them that using that as a guide why the h*ll would a sane person advise any young man to marry? Of course then I clarified, UNLESS HE WAS TAUGHT/ OR LEARNED TO BE A REAL MAN (Don Juan). Needless to say it was funny to watch the reactions of these women. They "towed the line" in front of their friends, but you could see the attraction that was generated with some of them from a man being a man. THANK YOU SOSUAVE DJs FOR HELPING ME EXPEL MY INNER AFC WUSS...:box:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I p*ssed off some women today...
- Thread starter brertiger
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ace of Flames
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Good job. Mind if I steal your statistics?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
And what were you planning on achieving by telling them this?brertiger said:...I told them that with a first marriage divorce rate of 50%, coupled with women getting granted custody 92% of the time, this resulted in 46% or basically 1 out of every 2 men paying their "soulmate" "child support" to steal his kids and b*ng somebody else. I then compared this to the advice given about commodities trading (exactly 50% failure, 50% success by nature). It is always advised that, unless you can afford to lose all your trading money, not to get involved. And even then, KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING. I then went on to tell them that using that as a guide why the h*ll would a sane person advise any young man to marry? Of course then I clarified, UNLESS HE WAS TAUGHT/ OR LEARNED TO BE A REAL MAN (Don Juan). Needless to say it was funny to watch the reactions of these women. They "towed the line" in front of their friends, but you could see the attraction that was generated with some of them from a man being a man. THANK YOU SOSUAVE DJs FOR HELPING ME EXPEL MY INNER AFC WUSS...:box:
What was my objective?
Well Francisco, they were "working" on this young AFC telling him how he should "commit" to their little co-worker. He reminds me a lot of myself when I was younger. I just wanted to do the right thing and try to thwart these overweight, single moms from spreading their misery around...I told this kid to establish his career and date lots of women. So he would have experience and an ability to compare them, et al. I told him right in front of these ol' biddies. And when they left, I told him the rest.............:trouble:
Well Francisco, they were "working" on this young AFC telling him how he should "commit" to their little co-worker. He reminds me a lot of myself when I was younger. I just wanted to do the right thing and try to thwart these overweight, single moms from spreading their misery around...I told this kid to establish his career and date lots of women. So he would have experience and an ability to compare them, et al. I told him right in front of these ol' biddies. And when they left, I told him the rest.............:trouble:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I see. I wouldn't have showed my hand though. Now these women know that they aren't dealing with a "typical nice guy" (if he heeds your lessons). All I'm saying is that he will probably be given a bad label (along with you) because of your conversation.brertiger said:Well Francisco, they were "working" on this young AFC telling him how he should "commit" to their little co-worker. He reminds me a lot of myself when I was younger. I just wanted to do the right thing and try to thwart these overweight, single moms from spreading their misery around...I told this kid to establish his career and date lots of women. So he would have experience and an ability to compare them, et al. I told him right in front of these ol' biddies. And when they left, I told him the rest.............:trouble:
Don't get me wrong, I'm the first to say why bother with what other people think about you if you are happy with yourself, it's just that not every guy has the fortitude of being not liked by the masses.