...I told them that with a first marriage divorce rate of 50%, coupled with women getting granted custody 92% of the time, this resulted in 46% or basically 1 out of every 2 men paying their "soulmate" "child support" to steal his kids and b*ng somebody else. I then compared this to the advice given about commodities trading (exactly 50% failure, 50% success by nature). It is always advised that, unless you can afford to lose all your trading money, not to get involved. And even then, KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING. I then went on to tell them that using that as a guide why the h*ll would a sane person advise any young man to marry? Of course then I clarified, UNLESS HE WAS TAUGHT/ OR LEARNED TO BE A REAL MAN (Don Juan). Needless to say it was funny to watch the reactions of these women. They "towed the line" in front of their friends, but you could see the attraction that was generated with some of them from a man being a man. THANK YOU SOSUAVE DJs FOR HELPING ME EXPEL MY INNER AFC WUSS...:box: